Welcome to the World of the Social Man. We’re a group of people who have dedicated our lives to helping guys like you improving your social and dating life. In other words, we can help you meet and date more hot girls.

We can teach you how to pick up women, but we’re not traditional pick up artists. We can show you the best parties in town, but we’re not promoters. We can work you through confidence issues, but we’re not psychologists.

We’re just a group of normal people who happen to be very skilled at teaching men like you how to develop the skills, the confidence and the lifestyle that attracts beautiful women, and we want to prove that to you.  We’ve been doing this for years, and members of our team have been featured on CNN, ABC’s NIGHTLINE program, and in print media like Men’s Health, and the New York Daily News.

Where to start?  Our longtime visitors asked us to put together a “best of,” and on this private site, you can discover some of our best tips and ideas.   You might want to bookmark the page, too, since it is private, and only available through the link you came through.

INTERVIEWS WITH CUTE GIRLS

In our Interviews with Cute Girls, we spend time with attractive, single women, getting to know what makes them tick, and flirting with them heavily along the way.  We’ve put these together for you to see how to have casual, fun, flirty conversations with women… and when the Interviews get flirty enough, how to get those women onto your lap and then some.  Enjoy…

Interview with Rachel

Interview with Jennifer

HIDDEN MIC PICKUPS

Let’s get one thing clear: we’re not those funky-hat-wearing guys you see on TV.  But we believe that a Social Man should have the skills to flirt and connect with women he’s never met before.  And in New York, there are beautiful women all around us – walking down the street, hanging out in bars, perusing the shelves of bookstores…  its in your best interest, as a single man, to be able to confidently approach a woman, charm her, and take her number.

We’ve put together a collection of Hidden Mic Pickups that will teach you exactly how to do just that.  We have examples from everywhere imaginable – the rooftop bar at 230 5th, a Union Square Starbucks, and even walking through Madison Square Park.  Here’s one from the W Hotel Bar in Los Angeles; it takes about 20 minutes, and is broken up into three segments.  A fourth clip, with extended analysis of exactly what happened, is provided as well.

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Sparks Rapid Escalation Method

When we started learning “pickup,” we had the same question that many men do: what do you say to a girl? Well, there are many answers to that, and we have many study at home programs to help get your verbal game tight. But you can’t overlook the nonverbals; in fact, good nonverbal communication is a critical part of building and maintaining attraction. In this video, Nick demonstrates the power of his Rapid Escalation Method.

WHAT’S NEXT?

We’ve just scratched the surface of everything we have available for you.

  • We encourage you to check out our blog, at www.thesocialman.com/blog.  It is updated daily with new questions, tips, and lifestyle advice.
  • Join us for Live Training.  Maybe you just want to party with us for a night to see how we absolutely dominate in a bar/club.  Or maybe you want personalized training, with private drills that will saturate you with confidence and new communication skills.  We work with new clients every week to help them make the most of their single lives.
  • Get to Know Us.  Curious who the people are behind The Social Man?  Some of us are entrepreneurs, some are professors, some are Wall Street analysts.  We like to run in the park and eat dim sum in Chinatown.  We’re not too different from you – we just have this side of our lives handled, and we live to help you achieve the same.