Comments on: How to Use Cocky Funny Correctly

By: VincentDM

VincentDM — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 02:02:49 +0000

Hey Benjamin

Cocky-Funny is not same as push pull
Push Pull is not same as Neg

Neg you almost never have to use, esp with direct game. you already demonstrate high value by doing direct game, so you dont need anymore.

sometimes i'm hitting on a girl thats so hot she litterally clears my head, and i tell her so. - it's the best PULL you can get.

I use C&F but i rarely use negs.
the difference between CF and neg is in the design
CF is sarcastic and shows you look at her like she's your baby sister - you make fun of her.
neg - is to make her think you're not interested.

I'm not explaining this bcz i think you need it, but in case other readers do.

have a great one

VincentDM

By: VincentDM

VincentDM — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 01:56:46 +0000

I do not agree with your last two examples, they show a neediness or a sexual predator-like guy. The request of”give me your #” right off the bat is kinda pathetic and what you're doing is creating UNNECESARY hoops for you to go through.

unless these hoops are creating some sort of sexual tension (maybe they are, i'm unsure of this) i think you're just making an easy encounter seem harder than it really is.

when a girl tells me she has a bf, i just change the subject and return to it 2 min later, if she still has one, i move to more seduction – if shes still there, shes intruiged and i can basically do as i please, we both understand the situation then.

By: BenjaminGusa

BenjaminGusa — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:48:42 +0000

man, i just read this a second ago, and its like a light bulb blew up in my head.. im a pretty attractive guy, by conventional standards. i ALWAYS used the push technique, and had moderate to low success with it. this whole pull technique is just something i never even thought of to use because all i ever think about is negging and raising my value. it really makes sense doing the pull method because it makes future projection SO much easier to fit in the conversation when im not coming off as such a high value prick. ive noticed how girls just look at me like their kind of intimidated. and that im just another guy trying to pick them up, using the push method. you guys are really helping me figure stuff out, and i know that when i get my next paycheck im buying unbreakable
-thanks a million

By: Jeff

Jeff — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 01:35:57 +0000

You guys consistently have top quality stuff for guys. I am glad my buddy DJ sold me down the river and gave you my email :)

I have been almost completely out of the community for a year or two now for the lack of normal well rounded guys who actually get it. Great stuff. Spot on.

By: trick

trick — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 05:41:20 +0000

very, VERY eye-opening Stuff. Also agree on the post on Californication def check that show out. I’ve see some of my ‘naturals” friends use this stuff all the time in college it definitely is a deadly combo (for CYC readers)

By: Adventure

Adventure — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 21:37:00 +0000

Brilliant post David.

Do you guys watch Californication? I believe Hank Moody’s character exhibits perfectly this combo of push-pull. If you haven’t seen it, that show has to be one of the most entertaining ones on TV now.

By: Will

Will — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 19:31:46 +0000

David – solid stuff as always!

By: Lou

Lou — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 06:36:58 +0000

Thats great stuff, I like how a suggested ratio and a cool belief really helped me today! This stuff really works with a positive attitude and sly smile thanks!!!

By: Rhen

Rhen — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 10:13:32 +0000

I just experienced enlightenment. Amazing insight, I never made this differenciation, I can only imagine what my game will be like once I start internalizing this more. Keep up the gw, youve got a loyal reader.

By: Gregory Magarshak

Gregory Magarshak — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:43:01 +0000

That’s pretty cool! I’ve said for a while now that you have to act 80% of the time like a woman and 20% of the time like a man (escalate). Nice to see that I’m not the only one who’s come to that conclusion.

When I say act like a woman, I mean not just C&F or “push”, I mean actually vibing with her like a woman would, and having the same resistance to escalation, etc.