Comments on: Text Messaging Tips http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/ How To Be Confident Wed, 01 Feb 2012 06:40:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Gregory Magarshak http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-664 Gregory Magarshak Fri, 26 Feb 2010 15:51:45 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-664 I don't know I think the guy appeared very genuine and non-gamey in his texts, which is good. She was responsive and told him details like birthday, being sick, etc. Where he said he messed up that's where it went downhill indeed. You can't just go right back to asking her out after such a break. Mes around a bit, cheer her up. A quick "how are you feeling?" and "I have an idea..." would do the trick. But other than that, was ok. Oh and he called her gorgeous after she said she was sick, that was sweet. I don't know I think the guy appeared very genuine and non-gamey in his texts, which is good. She was responsive and told him details like birthday, being sick, etc. Where he said he messed up that's where it went downhill indeed. You can't just go right back to asking her out after such a break. Mes around a bit, cheer her up. A quick "how are you feeling?" and "I have an idea..." would do the trick. But other than that, was ok. Oh and he called her gorgeous after she said she was sick, that was sweet.

]]> By: Gregory Magarshak http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-901 Gregory Magarshak Fri, 26 Feb 2010 10:51:00 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-901 I don't know I think the guy appeared very genuine and non-gamey in his texts, which is good. She was responsive and told him details like birthday, being sick, etc. Where he said he messed up that's where it went downhill indeed. You can't just go right back to asking her out after such a break. Mes around a bit, cheer her up. A quick "how are you feeling?" and "I have an idea..." would do the trick. But other than that, was ok. Oh and he called her gorgeous after she said she was sick, that was sweet. I don't know I think the guy appeared very genuine and non-gamey in his texts, which is good. She was responsive and told him details like birthday, being sick, etc. Where he said he messed up that's where it went downhill indeed. You can't just go right back to asking her out after such a break. Mes around a bit, cheer her up. A quick "how are you feeling?" and "I have an idea..." would do the trick. But other than that, was ok. Oh and he called her gorgeous after she said she was sick, that was sweet.

]]> By: stephennash http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-663 stephennash Thu, 04 Feb 2010 02:54:05 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-663 Dude - this is exactly the way to IMPROVE. Forget about your ego, particularly on a blog...and you're not only helping yourself, but all the other guys who read here. IME, you're the guy who gets better. Dude - this is exactly the way to IMPROVE. Forget about your ego, particularly on a blog...and you're not only helping yourself, but all the other guys who read here. IME, you're the guy who gets better.

]]> By: stephennash http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-662 stephennash Thu, 04 Feb 2010 02:52:40 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-662 Wow - this is really useful Christian, great post. I recently asked a girl out on a Sunday for the following Saturday...which creates the huge issue of 6 days of lag time. Here's the key though: by vibing early and often in a flirtatious way, you can create open threads that can lead to intermittent vibing throughout the week. For example, at one point we discussed the horrors of sugar free swedish fish candy...(can't exactly recall why, but that was the topic). So, on Tuesday I emailed her a link with the subject line that read: "It exists...The Horror". This led to a fun back and forth that allowed for some flirting and tension creation...all leading to a LOT of excitement before our time together. <br><br>So, when Christian says here that there is a lot of material offered by her (birthday, for example) this is not only GREAT for now, but also for later - when you might really need it.<br><br>Sn. Wow - this is really useful Christian, great post. I recently asked a girl out on a Sunday for the following Saturday...which creates the huge issue of 6 days of lag time. Here's the key though: by vibing early and often in a flirtatious way, you can create open threads that can lead to intermittent vibing throughout the week. For example, at one point we discussed the horrors of sugar free swedish fish candy...(can't exactly recall why, but that was the topic). So, on Tuesday I emailed her a link with the subject line that read: "It exists...The Horror". This led to a fun back and forth that allowed for some flirting and tension creation...all leading to a LOT of excitement before our time together.

So, when Christian says here that there is a lot of material offered by her (birthday, for example) this is not only GREAT for now, but also for later - when you might really need it.

Sn.

]]> By: 'D' Goes Down In Flames http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-661 'D' Goes Down In Flames Thu, 04 Feb 2010 02:41:30 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-661 Thanks for the feedback, guys. Needless to say, I'm embarrassed and humbled by this experience; all I can do at this point is learn from it and move on. I hope the posting of this exchange will help prevent others from making the same mistakes I made. Thanks for the feedback, guys. Needless to say, I'm embarrassed and humbled by this experience; all I can do at this point is learn from it and move on. I hope the posting of this exchange will help prevent others from making the same mistakes I made.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-884 Anonymous Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:54:00 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-884 Dude - this is exactly the way to IMPROVE. Forget about your ego, particularly on a blog...and you're not only helping yourself, but all the other guys who read here. IME, you're the guy who gets better. Dude - this is exactly the way to IMPROVE. Forget about your ego, particularly on a blog...and you're not only helping yourself, but all the other guys who read here. IME, you're the guy who gets better.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-883 Anonymous Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:52:00 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-883 Wow - this is really useful Christian, great post. I recently asked a girl out on a Sunday for the following Saturday...which creates the huge issue of 6 days of lag time. Here's the key though: by vibing early and often in a flirtatious way, you can create open threads that can lead to intermittent vibing throughout the week. For example, at one point we discussed the horrors of sugar free swedish fish candy...(can't exactly recall why, but that was the topic). So, on Tuesday I emailed her a link with the subject line that read: "It exists...The Horror". This led to a fun back and forth that allowed for some flirting and tension creation...all leading to a LOT of excitement before our time together. So, when Christian says here that there is a lot of material offered by her (birthday, for example) this is not only GREAT for now, but also for later - when you might really need it. Sn. Wow - this is really useful Christian, great post. I recently asked a girl out on a Sunday for the following Saturday...which creates the huge issue of 6 days of lag time. Here's the key though: by vibing early and often in a flirtatious way, you can create open threads that can lead to intermittent vibing throughout the week. For example, at one point we discussed the horrors of sugar free swedish fish candy...(can't exactly recall why, but that was the topic). So, on Tuesday I emailed her a link with the subject line that read: "It exists...The Horror". This led to a fun back and forth that allowed for some flirting and tension creation...all leading to a LOT of excitement before our time together.

So, when Christian says here that there is a lot of material offered by her (birthday, for example) this is not only GREAT for now, but also for later - when you might really need it.

Sn.

]]> By: 'D' Goes Down In Flames http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-882 'D' Goes Down In Flames Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:41:00 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-882 Thanks for the feedback, guys. Needless to say, I'm embarrassed and humbled by this experience; all I can do at this point is learn from it and move on. I hope the posting of this exchange will help prevent others from making the same mistakes I made. Thanks for the feedback, guys. Needless to say, I'm embarrassed and humbled by this experience; all I can do at this point is learn from it and move on. I hope the posting of this exchange will help prevent others from making the same mistakes I made.

]]> By: Ace http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-660 Ace Wed, 03 Feb 2010 11:47:34 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-660 Ouch! that was painful to read...I don't mean to come across as if I'm being mean but reading things like this make me cringe. Now I don't claim to be the best at texting. Hell I'll be the first to admist i screw up sometimes but one thing is for certain you came on waaaaayyyyy too strong way to fast. Personally my first text to this girl would've been something like this;<br><br>Hey there, my sis gave me your number, I hope youre as cool as she made you sound! :P<br><br>It seems you should've kept things light and fun at first instead of diving in right away and expecting her to respond so positively. Also this allows you to get to know her more, so that when youre out on the date you don't play twenty questions. The date itself should be the two of you enjoying eachothers company and having fun together, it shouldn't feel like an interview. which I'm sure you werent intending it to be but that's where it would turn to. <br><br>Also after the first few exchanges of text call her. Don't be afraid of calling her that was a mistake I had made in the past. You end up condeming yourself to just texting. Ouch! that was painful to read...I don't mean to come across as if I'm being mean but reading things like this make me cringe. Now I don't claim to be the best at texting. Hell I'll be the first to admist i screw up sometimes but one thing is for certain you came on waaaaayyyyy too strong way to fast. Personally my first text to this girl would've been something like this;

Hey there, my sis gave me your number, I hope youre as cool as she made you sound! :P

It seems you should've kept things light and fun at first instead of diving in right away and expecting her to respond so positively. Also this allows you to get to know her more, so that when youre out on the date you don't play twenty questions. The date itself should be the two of you enjoying eachothers company and having fun together, it shouldn't feel like an interview. which I'm sure you werent intending it to be but that's where it would turn to.

Also after the first few exchanges of text call her. Don't be afraid of calling her that was a mistake I had made in the past. You end up condeming yourself to just texting.

]]> By: ahmedgottliebchan http://www.thesocialman.com/text-messaging-tips/#comment-659 ahmedgottliebchan Wed, 03 Feb 2010 11:37:43 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1668#comment-659 If you're interested in this sort of thing, get your hands on a copy of B4 U TXT HER, Race's primer on text game. Amazing stuff! Worth every cent, it's paying me back in dividends. Not sure if it's officially released yet but I got mine when I bought my copy of Unbreakable.<br><br>Cheers!<br><br>AGC If you're interested in this sort of thing, get your hands on a copy of B4 U TXT HER, Race's primer on text game. Amazing stuff! Worth every cent, it's paying me back in dividends. Not sure if it's officially released yet but I got mine when I bought my copy of Unbreakable.

Cheers!

AGC

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