Talks with Cute Girls: Rachel

Keep it up Nick. Can't wait till next week.

Another hilarious interview. Love that stuff man.

Wow, that look between them at around 15:46. You can see her falling for him. In the whites of her eyes... hahaha.

Oh - and the quick glances he gives towards her lips... Pure gold.

Quite well done. I noticed, that girl actually held her own with you Nick. I'm a bit surprised... she's a lot smarter than the other two girls. That might be why Nick was actually able to remember her name... finally a girl who was a challenge, bravo.

Nick, brother, i could feel the love at the end of the video ... mind tell us what happened .... next?

Again great to see you in action, Nick!

Will we also see Christian in action?

very nice portraits on the wall. The banter between you two was very authentic. Plus, she definitely is cute and pounce, very good way to explain what guys should be doing. peace,lvoe and succe ss

Hey Ester, way to notice the art. I made those a few years ago and they're my proud contribution to this little endeavor, since I clearly can't work a camera or line it up properly.. ;)

Basti, I'll do one eventually. I'm less of an overt 'flirt' than Nick, so I'm not sure how my style of interaction would translate over to the screen.

He's got a great flirty humor. But I notice that he never really gets serious... even when talking about sex.

this one is the cutest to date

which niel is leaving the negative comments?
Is that Strauss per chance? Nick, you have a very endearing quality about you although I don't see you as a knock out in the looks department, pretty normal actually. So your success with women is mostly personality based. Your banter seems to mostly to do with a good natured cockiness, teasing and controlling the frame. If this is genuine, it seems to work pretty well, to get the girl attracted. this doesn't really have much to do with meeting a girl though as the reason your together is prearranged. Makes it much easier as you don't have to justify your contact, which is half the game.

its comments like Kramericas that make me wonder whether we're watching the same video
clip. A challenge?? She was receptive and willing to play along the whole time.
I'll admit I'ld love to date her but allas, I'm on the wrong side of the big pond )0=

Thanks for all of the comments guys.

To respond to a general theme in a couple of the comments: If I’m actually “gaming” a girl of course I will take things more to a serious level as things progress. These videos are more for fun/entertainment and I’m glad that it seems as though they are having that effect.

To Kramer and Natch: In my opinion the “challenge” observed with Rachel is that she is a girl who has a very strong personality and high intelligence that plays well against my own and so the back and forth banter is more two-sided than usual. I really enjoyed this one so I guess that translates on camera.

Thanks again and make the most out of your weekend.

Man she was all over you by the end of that... good stuff

I'm so confused on what this video is about . . . I just followed the link from one of the emails.

To the interviewer. I say this respecfully b/c I follow the newsletter and want to learn.

This is the first video I've seen. You come off as one of the guys in college who would tool me...kinda of a dick to the girl, are you like that to everyone? Is that the attitude helpful? It seems like it shows dominance...but it will also be a mental block for me, b/c I like being nice to others...

LV, what he's doing is that classic "push/pull" thing, tied in with the banter. He'll "pull" her in by having the whole fun banter thing going on, and every once in a while he'll throw in a negative comment (in a playful way, of course), to essentially "push" her away. In theory, this equals attraction.

LV, I know, counter intuitive. Put it this way, women are looking for strength and confidence in a potential partner. Being fearless and dominant communicates this. Teasing and poking fun is an expression of this. As obnoxiuos as it might seem, it builds attraction...so goes the theory anyway. I can't help wondering though, whether the girls in these clips weren't prepped to figure out a way to end up in nicks lap.

Great videos. I think it would be helpful to see a breakdown of the interactions. Similar to what Christian did with his audios on Master the Vibe.

Haha, man that awkward silence part was hillarious! Way to keep cool during that part. It looks like she was the first person to start frantically thinking about something to fill the void with something to say while some guys would be the one to do so. Nick just stayed in a aloof state. Good stuff!

Way to go Nick, beats the hell out of slinging mortgages over the phone

Great stuff. Keep it up

@ Lv espacially:

I have the same attitude..being nice to people ans so on. I find it also kinda childish or playerish at times the push and pull and going with the playfulness too far.

Its also a bit needy...you make a good comment maybe she makes a comeback and then there is this feeling you have to one up it ..most of the time the second one is already forced and the third then is not funny at all. This is wat i noticed..if you got a great joke spontanously put it out there, if its kinda forced just smile at her comeback and let the conversation flow til you there comes a point when a really great idea comes into yxour mind again. Thats powerful.

And then...
the words that come out of his mouth dont matter anyway. He could even talk about politics and it would be on. There is a subtle tension (sexual) going on. Its in the way he makes eye contact, he looks maybe at times a bit too long, sometimes at her lips, he's got this kinda cocky smile when she says something cute that say "your'e mine sweetheart". And maybe he is even turned on by her and he lets this transfer to her. And it works: She is giving iois en masse, cutely smiling, deep eye contact, embraces her soft skin on the neck, touching her hair. etc - basically trying to seduce him. And with this girl Stephanie she gives iois before he actually opens his mouth. All in all its just about his aura, his laid backness, and his presence that she can feel when she sits next to him and ohther people can feel when they enter the room. When you have the prensence that when you enter a room people are turning their heads toward you its just you see a girl you find her hot you get turned on and she gets turned on...not even great eye contact, smiling needed. Girls will give iois (waving through her hair) before they have seen you. But thats veeery advanced;) and requires hard work and self- inquiry.

Btw great videos to see this subtle chemistry in action. I think its very helpful to see those things over and over again in succesful guys cause people will adapt them if they truly commit themselves to develope a great vibe. Thanks for the work you put in it and your whole website.

Haha Rachel is really cute. And, um...so are you Nick. Flamingly cute.

You are the man nick, you just speak your mind, smile, have fun and just enjoy the presence of Rachel. Rachel also says some really great stuff especially toward the end, Beautiful.