Comments on: Sneaky Dating Tricks

By: Sneaky Dating Tricks: Cont… : The Social Man

Sneaky Dating Tricks: Cont… : The Social Man — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 05:09:49 +0000

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By: Marcus

Marcus — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 15:38:51 +0000

the article is great for providing us with exposure to these tricks, but Christian, could you provide some solutions for us to deal with these kind of tactics?

By: SNEAKY DATING TRICKS: CONT… : Sparks of Attraction

SNEAKY DATING TRICKS: CONT… : Sparks of Attraction — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 22:06:58 +0000

[...] started an excellent discussion here and I couldn’t help but jump in on [...]

By: Alexander

Alexander — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 13:37:45 +0000

Great post Christian, very insightfull.

DJ – I always try to reframe any events that occur between a girl and I, as though it was HER idea. Example: If she bullsh*t you with something like this “if you are lucky i’ll let you take me out again”. Then instantly reframe it to something like this “Well..I had fun, you really know how to treat me, I really like that in you, glad we could hang out” Got to go is getting late.

Ciao

By: DJ

DJ — Sat, 09 Aug 2008 14:32:24 +0000

This is specific to what Christian said about making future plans, but watch out when girls say that “you have to take me out again”, or if you’re lucky I’ll let you take me out again. This is usually one of the first times you see them, so I would respond, “what makes you think I’m going to take you out again?” (There happens to be a scene in The Departed where Matt Damon uses a line like this, but I still haven’t thought of a better response)

By: Orbitors; Maxim Radio | Joseph Went South! Relationship Advice and the study of Female Psychology

Fri, 08 Aug 2008 17:42:23 +0000

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By: Joseph W. South

Joseph W. South — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 17:11:11 +0000

This is great! I would like to interview you on my show, where you can explain this in greater detail and reach a wide audience. Hit me up!

By: Christian

Christian — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 15:20:55 +0000

ARDavid – ummm, I wasn’t implying that a guy should USE this stuff. But I guess he could…

Shiro – yup, the push/pull is a killer. Thanks for the reminder.

Mihai – way to promote your own blog here big guy.

Brad – absolutely. I had one girlfriend who was a MASTER of this. Very difficult to deal with.

Lance – the thing I’ve found is that whenever girls (and guys) have more options, they need more strategies for dealing with all those options. So its not necessarily ‘club’ girls, although those are certainly some of the girls I meet.

Hash – just keep your guard up, is all I can say ;)

Calvin – thanks man! Hope you’re having fun in Ze Deutschland right now.

By: Calvin

Calvin — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:02:36 +0000

Dude your a really great source on dynamics and psychology of woman. People always talk about game but hardly ever talk about interesting little trends and quirks that come with this scene and the woman they date. I believe that understanding and identifying types of woman is key for building social circles.
Thanks for the great information and the heads up.

By: hash

hash — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 06:46:50 +0000

I think I’m falling for all three right now…