Now that you have a solid foundation on the underlying principles that govern effective text interactions and how to successfully get a woman's phone number, it’s time for you to dive in and get your thumbs dirty. In this section are the majority of techniques you will use in your everyday texting.
Making Up Memories - How To Role Play
Remember when you used to play "house" with a girl you like in elementary school? You were the husband and girl you had a crush on was the wife. Or perhaps it was doctor and patient or Kind and Queen of the castle (a.k.a. the slide). Although it may have just seemed like a fun game at the time, there were some very powerful psychological principles of attraction going on there. The best part is those principles are far more effective now that you are older. In fact, the effects of successfully role-playing with a woman you are interested in are so astounding you will wonder why you haven't been doing it all along.
The human brain has trouble distinguishing between imagined events and real memories. This is significant because every time you create an imagined event with a woman using role-playing, she is in essence creating a memory with you. The more memories you have with someone the more comfortable you feel around them. After all, are not all the relationships you have in your life formed from the feelings and bonds created through shared memories together?
When role-playing with a woman the devil is in the details. The more vivid she can imagine herself experiencing the events you describe the more powerful and "real" the memory will become. You want to pick roles where you do things together or where she is the one who is looking up to or chasing you.
Here are a few examples of role-playing ideas:
-Husband and Wife (or ex's)
-Travel Buddies (talk about all the adventures you are going on together)
-Stalker and Victim (she is the one stalking you)
-Teacher and Student
-Rockstar and Groupie
In Action:
Saturday, Dec 27 2008 at 8:17:14 PM
Race: Did I just catch you spying on me as I was changing into my gym clothes my little stalker?!Saturday, Dec 27 2008 at 8:17:59 PM
Selma: Yes im watchin uSaturday, Dec 27 2008 at 8:19:46 PM
Selma: Nice ass...Saturday, Dec 27 2008 at 8:20:45 PM
Race: Hey thanks ;) I'll let you grab it next time we are making outSaturday, Dec 27 2008 at 8:23:24 PM
Selma: K im soo goin to grab it nowAs you engage her with different role-playing scenarios you are also displaying an adventurous, exciting, or even possibly a slightly romantic side of your self. These can be short little interactions or, to get the most out of them, they can become a long running theme between you two. This way when you meet up again you already have a story line between you two that you can draw from at any time. I cannot stress enough how much comfort this creates!
Me4/12/08 5:22 PM
Race: Hey wanna come over here and grab some lunch wifey?Alicia ms law student?4/12/08 5:24 PM
Alicia: i would love to but im working the bon jovi concert tonight through an agency and i have to leave at 4! :0( thank you so much tho! xoMe4/12/08 5:25 PM
Race: Well us not seeing each other very often is putting a definite strain on our marriage:-(Alicia ms law student?4/12/08 5:28 PM
Alicia: i know! i cry myself to sleep at night... 6 more days til we go on our double honeymoon!Equally as significant, role playing allows her to let go of some of her insecurities and open up more than usual. Because she is 'playing a role' of somebody else she can use that as plausible deniability. After all it really 'isn't her'. When in all actuality, the things she jokes about (for the most part) are actually an outlet for how she really feels. And again, because it is a role and "not her", she isn't worried about being judged. She can pass that off to the character she is playing into.
Misinterpretation
Use Emoticons and Short Hand
Playfully Tease Her
Avoid Short Replies
Mirroring
Building Unconscious Rapport through Mirroring
Dorks and Nerds Are Cool
The Power of Nicknames
Picking The Right Nickname
Guessing Her Answer
Section Recap
In the "Texting Fundamentals" Chapter, we'll tell you how much you should be texting, the number one mistake guys make when texting, and
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