Anyway, a reader sent this tip in and I thought I'd share it:
Another thing I've found useful to spark that attraction in a friend-zone [hah, now I remember that my whole involvement with "the community" started when a friend told me to google the ladder theory] is to do some new and unique activities with her, preferably some that frame you in a brilliant, leading role. It all helps to recreate her definition of you and how she feels, of course.
Great advice, especially about doing anthing that has you in a brilliant, leadership role. Thanks J!
Also, my friend Stephen Nash wrote a great article about why most guys DON'T change and don't keep their new year's reoslutions. Fantastic read right here.
