Comments on: Genuine Interest http://www.thesocialman.com/genuine-interest Thu, 09 Sep 2010 01:59:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Zach http://www.thesocialman.com/genuine-interest/comment-page-1#comment-392 Zach Fri, 20 Feb 2009 19:35:40 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=826#comment-392 I think Ron White said it best, "You Can't Fix Stupid." A girl you can light her up with complements about her looks, but finding a way to make her intellectually stimulating is a challenge. Because its intimadating for women to open up that far in hopes not to sound like a brainiac or nerd. I think Ron White said it best, “You Can’t Fix Stupid.” A girl you can light her up with complements about her looks, but finding a way to make her intellectually stimulating is a challenge. Because its intimadating for women to open up that far in hopes not to sound like a brainiac or nerd.

]]> By: A http://www.thesocialman.com/genuine-interest/comment-page-1#comment-391 A Fri, 20 Feb 2009 18:39:59 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=826#comment-391 Alright, so here's my question (in addition to the physics thing - seriously!): You said it took a lot to get this girl to open up - what are some tips, past "showing genuine interest," to draw out the really fascinating parts of a girl's personality? I've found way too many girls I meet, I just don't find as, well, intellectually stimulating as I'd like. I figure part of it has to do with the girls themselves, not to mention probably my standards, but there's no way my social graces aren't factoring into it, too :) Thanks a lot. Alright, so here’s my question (in addition to the physics thing – seriously!):

You said it took a lot to get this girl to open up – what are some tips, past “showing genuine interest,” to draw out the really fascinating parts of a girl’s personality? I’ve found way too many girls I meet, I just don’t find as, well, intellectually stimulating as I’d like. I figure part of it has to do with the girls themselves, not to mention probably my standards, but there’s no way my social graces aren’t factoring into it, too :) Thanks a lot.

]]> By: A http://www.thesocialman.com/genuine-interest/comment-page-1#comment-390 A Fri, 20 Feb 2009 18:33:49 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=826#comment-390 Which branch of physics? :) Which branch of physics? :)

]]> By: Will http://www.thesocialman.com/genuine-interest/comment-page-1#comment-388 Will Fri, 20 Feb 2009 15:27:14 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=826#comment-388 Here are my two, which may set itself up for a worthwhile entry: 1) How do you properly set precedence to a girl that you are keeping your options open, without appearing as a "player"? I try to make it clear that when we meet, that it's NOT a date and even tell them to invite a friend. 2) I've been trying my hardest to avoid the Dinner / Movie date. So I've sort of been limited to: - (Grocery) Shopping - Coffee (and Ice Cream) I know there are so many alternatives, ie: Skydiving, Rock climbing, or even cooking dinner at my place. But I want to try and keep it as low key as possible. There are girls who I know want to see me and take the initiative on asking ME out on a dinner date, should I accept? When I reject and then offer any of the above, they tend to think I'm less interested in them. Here are my two, which may set itself up for a worthwhile entry:

1) How do you properly set precedence to a girl that you are keeping your options open, without appearing as a “player”? I try to make it clear that when we meet, that it’s NOT a date and even tell them to invite a friend.

2) I’ve been trying my hardest to avoid the Dinner / Movie date. So I’ve sort of been limited to:
– (Grocery) Shopping
– Coffee (and Ice Cream)
I know there are so many alternatives, ie: Skydiving, Rock climbing, or even cooking dinner at my place. But I want to try and keep it as low key as possible.

There are girls who I know want to see me and take the initiative on asking ME out on a dinner date, should I accept? When I reject and then offer any of the above, they tend to think I’m less interested in them.

]]> By: Wayland http://www.thesocialman.com/genuine-interest/comment-page-1#comment-385 Wayland Fri, 20 Feb 2009 08:44:35 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=826#comment-385 Christian, I laughed about the burlesque thing dude. I'm soooo sorry. But hey, in other news, we have a (potentially) new waitress and she has big boobies (I love that freaking word.) and a pretty face. Dating/Lifestyle Question: What are your thoughts on dating without sex? Or even abstaining from sex before marriage? Christian, I laughed about the burlesque thing dude. I’m soooo sorry. But hey, in other news, we have a (potentially) new waitress and she has big boobies (I love that freaking word.) and a pretty face.

Dating/Lifestyle Question:

What are your thoughts on dating without sex? Or even abstaining from sex before marriage?

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