Comments on: From One Night Stand to Life Long Love http://www.thesocialman.com/from-one-night-stand-to-life-long-love/ How To Be Confident Tue, 07 Feb 2012 17:11:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Dan http://www.thesocialman.com/from-one-night-stand-to-life-long-love/#comment-626 Dan Mon, 11 Jan 2010 18:17:32 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1659#comment-626 Oh man, sorry, I think I am getting concepts mixed up here. What do you mean by BUILDING attraction? From your matieral, Eye contact, Tonality, Body Language are the only things that I can come up with from the top of my head. I am big fan of your stuff, and since you're talking a lot about Framing, doesn't saying stuff like "Man, I don't know what it is, but I have been thinking about kissing you for quite a while. Anyway, what were you saying..?" kind of frame the whole thing in the right way, i.e. I am high value (which I guess I am, in her eyes, as a friend, at least) and therefore can show my interest like that. I definitely see your point, as how this technique is great for getting over the awkward gap that you were talking about. I am just curious if it would work in that other way, kind of like a barrier, just to put the idea of us getting together in her head without pushing it too much. you guys rock dan Oh man, sorry, I think I am getting concepts mixed up here. What do you mean by BUILDING attraction? From your matieral, Eye contact, Tonality, Body Language are the only things that I can come up with from the top of my head.

I am big fan of your stuff, and since you're talking a lot about Framing, doesn't saying stuff like "Man, I don't know what it is, but I have been thinking about kissing you for quite a while. Anyway, what were you saying..?" kind of frame the whole thing in the right way, i.e. I am high value (which I guess I am, in her eyes, as a friend, at least) and therefore can show my interest like that.

I definitely see your point, as how this technique is great for getting over the awkward gap that you were talking about. I am just curious if it would work in that other way, kind of like a barrier, just to put the idea of us getting together in her head without pushing it too much.

you guys rock

dan

]]> By: Nick http://www.thesocialman.com/from-one-night-stand-to-life-long-love/#comment-625 Nick Fri, 08 Jan 2010 22:30:54 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1659#comment-625 Very nice job on the video editing Christian ;) And Dan, I would say that you can use this technique, or a personalized variation of it, to move things forward if she's already attracted to you, but not necessarily a way to build attraction. It is essentially a charming way to lead things onward (doing a man's job) once she's shown you that she wants you to. Very nice job on the video editing Christian ;)

And Dan, I would say that you can use this technique, or a personalized variation of it, to move things forward if she's already attracted to you, but not necessarily a way to build attraction.

It is essentially a charming way to lead things onward (doing a man's job) once she's shown you that she wants you to.

]]> By: Dan http://www.thesocialman.com/from-one-night-stand-to-life-long-love/#comment-624 Dan Fri, 08 Jan 2010 06:30:51 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1659#comment-624 Christian, do you think this is a technique that would also work BEFORE the hook-up, e.g. to transition from friend to lover Christian, do you think this is a technique that would also work BEFORE the hook-up, e.g. to transition from friend to lover

]]> By: Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/from-one-night-stand-to-life-long-love/#comment-623 Christian Fri, 08 Jan 2010 06:21:35 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1659#comment-623 LOL I forgot to edit out the beginning when I messed up. Well, now you get to see the little hand wave motion I make when I mess up and want to remind myself of where to look to cut in imovie :) LOL I forgot to edit out the beginning when I messed up. Well, now you get to see the little hand wave motion I make when I mess up and want to remind myself of where to look to cut in imovie :)

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