Playboy Party and Celebrities

[Matty P]

What up gents-

Hoping I can get the forum's two cents on this one. I'm going to the Playboy Superbowl Party at a real high-brow club (fo free, score). I was looking for tips and suggestions as to how to approach some of the better looking women, especially with all the celebrities (rappers, athletes, etc.) that will be around. I think this could be a genuinely great thread about what to do in situations where there are a lot of high value women and men around you, and you're coming in as a relatively normal guy.

I would even love to know how to be friendly with celebrities. Like, super-celebs. Every so often I'm in a position to meet them because of where I live. I feel they would be wary of anyone they don't know approaching them (most of them have bodyguards, for Chrissake). What could I say to bring them value, when they already have so damn much?

Some background: I'll be dressed well, arriving with a decent-looking, fun girlfriend of mine, my social skills are relatively calibrated and I'm a fun guy, and my confidence/primary value are much better than they have ever been.

'Preciate your input in advance.

Best,

Matty

[Brendan]

Well presumably you know someone there- that's how you got the invite. So, go and find that person and say hello. Stay and chat for a while- hopefully he'll introduce you to a couple of people, which will help get your energy going a little, and then ask who the host of the party is. Go find that person, and let's say you brought some vodka (not crappy vodka), so say thanks for throwing this together and I brought this. Of course, make sure your girlfriend is introduced to everyone, etc. Maybe introduce yourself to the bartender as well.

I would assume that if you treat celebs like they are real people, they will respond in kind- not all of them, sure, but if for example you start talking to Kanye West, people will notice. Last thing- right at the beginning, I'd stay away from the girls (unless one of them is the host), it can convey the wrong message about why you're there.

I do not have firsthand experience so I cannot guarantee the success of this, but that is how I would act if I was invited to a party where I didn't know very many people- just bring a good vibe, bounce around the party, and give love & value. Whatever you do- don't start treating celebrities like celebrities, they will register that you think they're above you and, well... they will start treating you that way. If I were really famous I'd certainly get tired of not getting treated like a real person...

Good luck and hope this helps!
-Brendan