3 Somes

[CMBC]

Question about 3 somes. And not your typical fantasy girl girl guy 3 somes.

I moved into university dorms. This is my 3rd year. I know what the college game is all about this time. It's about being insanely social, no "pickups", outgoing, high energy, and being extremely sexual which sparks intrigue in other girls and ends up with them thinking of you sexually and leads to hookups.

So before everyone else moved in, these 2 people, a guy and a girl, moved in. Apparently they had to due to circumstances so they were allowed an early move in a day ahead of schedule.

The guy clearly doesn't study PUA, but is a natural due to his good looks through no effort of his own, and his outgoing fun personality that just attracts girls. The girl is just a total sexual girl that is just up for anything. They hooked up that first night. The guy, for some reason, loves to have 3 somes but with another GUY in the situation. So him, girl, and guy. He likes the idea of just giving it to the girl from 2 guys, and then both guys just cumming all over her face or something. He claims he's not bi. These are both people I live with on my floor and who i've become friends with.

He looks up to me because he knows I know lots about pickup and college game. He's been asking me especially (and a ton of other guys because I told him maybe and that I think it's too weird) to join him and fuck the hell out of this girl, who is also totally into it. At first I was like no way that's too weird. I could probably fuck this girl alone too (she's not here tonight or I probably would have tried). Last night she was all over me but we couldn't isolate. I'm 95% sure if I flat out just say to her "hey, lets go to my room and fuck" she'll be down for it.

But let's stick on the 3 some thing. What do you guys think? When he asks me I keep telling him maybe, but strict no contact or anything like that if it ever happens. He's agrees. Now, i'm not gay, not bi, nothing. Not into guys at all. But I don't know the way he makes it out to be, and it being college, sounds kind of fun. He says he (from back where he's from, big city) did it a few times. Either way the only way i'd do it is if it were strict no contact. Plus I have a pretty big cock so I don't think he will outshine me there. Maybe even at best for him.

Anyway, without endless detail, what do you think? Too weird? Something to consider? Do you know the mindset of guys who ARE into this shit?

[Scotty Pimpin]

You shouldn't be asking us for what you should think. This is your life, you're the one who has to live it, if you want to go for it, then do it. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks, some will think it's weird, others I know enjoy a spitroast/devil's threesome. If you're happy... does it matter if someone else thinks it's weird?

[wizz]

Preach oooon scotty pimpin.

[CMBC]

I'll admit that you are right in it's what I think that matters...

But I don't remember if it was from CYC or from another college PUA audio course I went through called "Man On Campus" by Mark Manson that said this, but it was said that you want to be seen as a huge sexual guy on campus. Have sex with lots of different girls. Ben seen as the player, etc... I was just wondering if 1) Anyone has personal experience doing a 3 some like this, and 2) What you think of the theory and whether this may pump up sexual social proof.

One thing not stressed enough in CYC is social proof. Social proof leads to girls coming up to you and just begging for sex, in college.

[Leonidas126]

Scotty Pimpin's right IMO. Bottom line is, don't waste your time deciding one way or the other. The big 'game' point here is never hesitate - if you're tempted to try this (which it seems like you are), then why the hell not? At worst, you won't like it but it'll give you some experience and you'll have a crazy story for games of Never Have I Ever. Conversely, if the idea's repulsive to you, then for obvious reasons, just forget about it and move on with your life.

[CMBC]

True. The idea, before this, would have repulsed me. But the way he make it sound, with no contact or anything like that, it doesn't sound that stupid anymore. Anyway i'll get back to you on what I decide whether I do it or not.

[Christian]

CMBC - it really is up to you and your own value system. Unless you're held back by a particular religious or social doctrine that you hold dear, then you'll only know whether it was right or wrong for you after you've done it. Kind of like I felt after wearing skinny hipster jeans.

[Nick]

Scotty spit it like poetry.

I say definitely do it.

It's understandable why you feel some anxiousness over this one. With all of the homophobic themes running all over society, especially in some popular collage circles, it makes perfect sense where the 'no-homo' thing comes from.

What I will say is that is that I did it in college, it was fun, a little funny that another dude was there but we were both blatantly not attracted to each other so all in all it was a definite plus of experience.

On the sexual image, I find that in college, as well as everywhere else, women want to be more comfortable and open with their sexuality, they're just looking for a guy who's knowledegable to do it with.

When the right time in the conversation hits, the secrets game is great for this, I love touting my openness with my sexuality - within the limits of bragging of course. This "devil's 3-some" (lol) story of mine has demonstrated this quality of mine to more than one woman.

Usually I'll then gently challenge girls to start opening up about their usually-guarded sexual feelings.

This starts with you taking more steps in the direction of "free love".

And above all, if you're not gay, then you're not gay, nothing to worry about.

[CMBC]

What's this "Secrets game" ?

[Nick]

It's the best vehicle to introduce sexuality into your conversation.

Instead of me typing it out again, there's a full breakdown of it in Unbreakable among the 1000 other things in there, and I think there's an outline of it on this forum that I posted here some time ago.