Anyway nice reading an defenitly true, but these are normal things a men should do

But the one big thing that's unsaid is that she has to find you hot enough in the first place. If she doesn't, then none of this will matter, anyway, and of course none of this will work. You have to do your "groundwork" as a man first. There are no simple shortcuts for that one.

Or she might get heated up in the moment, and totally disappear as soon as she gets to thinking more and feeling less, especially -- oddly enough -- if she thinks you a good enough man to be relationship material, but you don't meet her relationship criteria -- and therefore aren't "disposable one-night stand material." Yes, the jerks do have an advantage in that department -- but a lot of women still get hung up on 'em.

And it's totally an individual thing. One gal might find one man who many others find totally ordinary much hotter than another man who's considered one of the hottest on the planet, and all the better if many women find you hot. I had one hot girlfriend who found Brad Pitt rather unattractive, for example, and another who was all over me, but found Kid Rock "gross." I don't think Brad Pitt or Kid Rock would care very much. That's the sort of attitude you need to have.

But even the gals who ain't so into you -- or just think you're wrong for them for whatever reason {religion, age, etc.} or are even just plain unavailable -- might have friends who are.