Crazy few days… we relaunched Fearless yesterday and are selling out fast.  And while I've finally started to hire some people to help out around here (if you're an entrepreneur, you probably know how hard it is to "let go") I still do a lot of the tech stuff, the marketing, the production… it's a]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-around-women/ Scotch, and Sherlock Holmes stories. Don't break up with a girl without 'em. Following up from last week's article on female psychology and difficult women (thanks for all the great thoughts, by the way), I want to get a little more practical for you, and pull right from a few of my own big breakups.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/a-tale-of-two-breakups/ Let's face it - us guys need women around. And not just for sex and food.  Women balance us out.  They rein in our more violent impulses, encourage good grooming and hygiene, and expose us to movies we'd never watch otherwise, like The Notebook. It goes beyond chick flicks, of course.  Biologically, you need some]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/female-psychology-why-women-are-so-damn-difficult/ On the fourth floor of the Bras Basah Complex here in Singapore, you'll find the offices of Chinese Success Media.  It's where my friend David holds his Aura Dating Academy classes, and amazingly, where you'll find the walls lined with transcriptions of books from the likes of Tony Robbins, T Harv Ecker, and Richard Kiyosaki.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/5-books-every-man-should-read/ I hear some crazy stuff, but this was just, well… sad. I needed to make sure I was hearing things right. "Jeez louise, man… so let me get this straight. She never responded to your texts, she never wanted to talk to you about your life, and she was cold to you…. but you were]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-make-a-girl-like-you/ There's something about Asia that's always spoken to me... a whisper of sorts... a mystery to discover... a secret to unlock. So I'm excited to finally be visiting in a few weeks - I'll be in Singapore from Nov 15 to Dec 15, with a yet-to-be-confirmed mini trip to some exotic location. While I'm over]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/singapore-surprises/ There has been something swirling around in my mind... slightly out of focus at first, then coming sharply into view in the last week when I remembered a quotation by good ol' Soren Kierkegaard. "Our life always expresses the result of our dominant thoughts." Tattoo that one on your midsection or something, it's worth remembering.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-get-what-you-want/ This article had to be written. After hearing this question more frequently than just about any other, I really didn’t have a choice.Why do your convos have a habit of dying? Let’s start by making one thing clear: I have trouble remembering a client who never told me, “I’m fine talking to most girls, it’s]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/why-your-conversations-are-falling-flat/ Woooooo.  I'm happy. This damn website I've been working on for six months is done.  It does a lot of cool stuff and makes it super-easy to access our content. Here's how it all works: Short Video Demo It's been a lot of hard work… in fact, the last year has been filled with hard]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/the-heart-of-your-desire/ In all the time I've been subscribed to dating advice newsletters, I don't think I've ever seen an email about thoughtfulness with women. It's one of those mushy words that calls us to be our better selves, and there was definitely a (rather selfish) time in my life when I was dismissive of anything that]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/making-a-girl-like-you/