http://www.thesocialman.com/what-to-say-to-women-who-reject-you/ http://www.thesocialman.com/what-to-say-to-women-who-reject-you/#comments Tue, 15 May 2012 19:16:06 +0000 jakev http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4524 I was recently asked about the best way to respond when a woman rejects you, and this is actually a fantastic question that really gets to the heart of the stuff that I teach guys. It's not important so that you can "save face" or anything like that, but rather because knowing ahead of time]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/what-to-say-to-women-who-reject-you/feed/ 5 http://www.thesocialman.com/becoming-a-master-of-arousal/ http://www.thesocialman.com/becoming-a-master-of-arousal/#comments Tue, 08 May 2012 19:31:01 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4484 A lot of guys tell me that their biggest sticking point with women is “getting attraction.” I think the word gets used as a placeholder far to often, so let’s see if we can shine a little light on on a specific element of attraction: arousal. You will not go home with a car loaded]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/becoming-a-master-of-arousal/feed/ 1 http://www.thesocialman.com/the-winners-attitude/ http://www.thesocialman.com/the-winners-attitude/#comments Mon, 07 May 2012 06:32:03 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4475 There's a unique quality of voice that accompanies a "come to Jesus" moment… you know, that moment when some serious hell gets rained down on you by someone you care about, in a way that makes you question everything about yourself. It's kind of like the frightened warble of a blind baby bird, unsure if]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/the-winners-attitude/feed/ 5 http://www.thesocialman.com/deciding-to-be-decisive/ http://www.thesocialman.com/deciding-to-be-decisive/#comments Fri, 27 Apr 2012 20:27:10 +0000 djsiclari http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4451 A series on the qualities of the empowered and balanced masculine written for The Social Man. It’s important for guys who are seeking to improve their relationships with women to learn skills to be an attractive man. However, to find and keep your own personal perfect 10, you will have to become that man. This]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/deciding-to-be-decisive/feed/ 4 http://www.thesocialman.com/get-women-by-fighting-an-empire/ http://www.thesocialman.com/get-women-by-fighting-an-empire/#comments Sun, 22 Apr 2012 16:02:52 +0000 Ian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4404 In this month's Alpha Male Example, Ian breaks down the character of Spartacus, from the eponymous TV series. What can we learn from him about being an awesome, attractive guy? Read on for the full analysis...   So who we looking at? Character: Spartacus Actor: Andy Whitfield & Liam McIntyre Show: Spartacus - 'Blood and Sand']]> http://www.thesocialman.com/get-women-by-fighting-an-empire/feed/ 16 http://www.thesocialman.com/what-every-woman-wants-her-man-to-be/ http://www.thesocialman.com/what-every-woman-wants-her-man-to-be/#comments Tue, 17 Apr 2012 17:04:27 +0000 djsiclari http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4420 A series on the qualities of the empowered and balanced masculine written for The Social Man. It’s important for guys who are seeking to improve their relationships with women to learn skills to be an attractive man. However, to find and keep your own personal perfect 10, you will have to become that man. This]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/what-every-woman-wants-her-man-to-be/feed/ 6 http://www.thesocialman.com/happy-birthday-to-us/ http://www.thesocialman.com/happy-birthday-to-us/#comments Mon, 02 Apr 2012 08:54:47 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4270 Wow, TSM is four years old. When I started this business, I was pretty deep in debt, had no "Plan B," and wasn't certain that I'd be able to make my next rent payment. But here we are. It has not been easy.  With almost all of our first few years of profits going to]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/happy-birthday-to-us/feed/ 151 http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-disagree-with-a-woman/ http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-disagree-with-a-woman/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 17:42:12 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4369 Amazing final day in South Beach… a little work in the morning, daytime volleyball with a cool group of brazilians, evening massage at the Delano, and a four mile run on the beach to wind down the night. So these last few weeks, we've been talking about the mindset that drives confidence.  But let's get]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-disagree-with-a-woman/feed/ 18 http://www.thesocialman.com/inner-game-the-gap-the-resistance-and-the-champion/ http://www.thesocialman.com/inner-game-the-gap-the-resistance-and-the-champion/#comments Mon, 12 Mar 2012 16:45:05 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4265 "Just go talk to her dude. Even one-armed women need lovin' too." So spoke my friend, moments before my first ever cold approach. Despite her missing limb, I was nervous as hell. Total lack of confidence, heart thumping in my throat… it felt like my brain was going to melt down. I steeled myself, and]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/inner-game-the-gap-the-resistance-and-the-champion/feed/ 22 http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-with-everything/ http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-with-everything/#comments Mon, 05 Mar 2012 20:38:26 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4251 I've often thought that if I meet the man who invented Tostitos Hint of Lime chips, I'd give him a hug, then punch him in the face. When a bag of these chips is tucked away in my cabinet, it takes every ounce of willpower in my body to resist 'em.  Especially on those late]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-with-everything/feed/ 53