Conversations on Dates

Hey, great advice. This has always been a big problem for me. I try to remember too much material and I often come across as rehearsed. I think it's better to have a base of knowledge about what to do, and then you will automatically use the material when appropriate.

Hey, great advice. This has always been a big problem for me. I try to remember too much material and I often come across as rehearsed. I think it's better to have a base of knowledge about what to do, and then you will automatically use the material when appropriate.

Spot on. The best dates have always been EFFORTLESS. But the one thing I'll add is to choose the right venue for you. For me it has to be something FUN or INTERESTING, like going dancing, checking out a show, even a movie. I don't recall having even one relationship arise out of a "coffee date" type first date. That might work for small-talk aces, but that has never been a strength for me. I've even had some great dates when we saw a rather disturbing, very "non-date" movie. Anything to stir emotions...

Spot on. The best dates have always been EFFORTLESS. But the one thing I'll add is to choose the right venue for you. For me it has to be something FUN or INTERESTING, like going dancing, checking out a show, even a movie. I don't recall having even one relationship arise out of a "coffee date" type first date. That might work for small-talk aces, but that has never been a strength for me. I've even had some great dates when we saw a rather disturbing, very "non-date" movie. Anything to stir emotions...