Wise Words

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Many years ago, I discovered a song called We Want Fun, by a guy named Andrew W.K. I quickly picked up his album, and with it on repeat during a run, was energized to go further than I'd ever gone before.  Like his music or hate it, the guy has an amazing outlook on life. 

What Women Want (in their own words)

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I thought it would be fun to ask a few female friends to tell me what they liked and didn't like in men.  Don't take this stuff as gospel; there is a great study reported in the book Blink which reveals how susceptible our preferences are to unexpected surprises.  But hey, these are some smart

Audio Mailbag: Falling In Love

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Today's question comes from "robert" who is sitting in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g. Yo Christian, Hope you're staying warm out there.  I imagine you're either going to the inauguration or hosting a killer party to celebrate it... Anyways, I wanted to thank you, keep you posted about me, and ask a question...I'll make it short and

Audio Mailbag: Insecure Girls

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This one was interesting to me, because both one of my best friends and I have dated girls exactly like this. My friend, Tom, is a sophomore in college. Almost every time he is on break back at his parents house he spends a lot of time with a girl whom he went to high

The Social Matrix

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Anyone who has ever found themselves in love will understand that it is largely an unconscious process. In other words, we don’t choose who we are attracted to – it just “happens,” without any logical reasoning. But let’s step back and consider what it is when two humans – Joe and Mary – interact with

Female Psychology, as Reported by a Female

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Today we have a guest post from a good female friend of mine, who goes by the name Model Behavior.  I love her writing and have learned a lot from her, and I highly suggest that you start reading her website at www.SelfAbsorbed.me, a site where several smart females write about dating and relationships.  And

Audio Mailbag: She Made a Bad Choice

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Today's question comes from Alan, who was writing in responding to the very first email in my email list's sequence, so he's probably a 'newbie'.  But I have high expectations that he can get his girl problem sorted. I broke off with my girl when she went out with another man. But like you mentioned,

Talks with Cute Girls: Rachel

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This week, we're joined by Rachel. You can catch her in various roles in TV and off broadway, and she's fun and quirky as can be.

Talks with Cute Girls: Jennifer

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Sneaky Dating Tricks: Cont...

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Christian started an excellent discussion here and I couldn't help but jump in on it. The main thing I want to do here is give some guidance on how to react if you find yourself in a situation where a girl is using one of these "sneaky dating tricks" on you so that you don't