http://www.thesocialman.com/a-tale-of-two-breakups/ http://www.thesocialman.com/a-tale-of-two-breakups/#comments Tue, 24 Jan 2012 00:57:37 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4181 Scotch, and Sherlock Holmes stories. Don't break up with a girl without 'em. Following up from last week's article on female psychology and difficult women (thanks for all the great thoughts, by the way), I want to get a little more practical for you, and pull right from a few of my own big breakups.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/a-tale-of-two-breakups/feed/ 21 http://www.thesocialman.com/5-books-every-man-should-read/ http://www.thesocialman.com/5-books-every-man-should-read/#comments Wed, 07 Dec 2011 09:33:01 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4167 On the fourth floor of the Bras Basah Complex here in Singapore, you'll find the offices of Chinese Success Media.  It's where my friend David holds his Aura Dating Academy classes, and amazingly, where you'll find the walls lined with transcriptions of books from the likes of Tony Robbins, T Harv Ecker, and Richard Kiyosaki.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/5-books-every-man-should-read/feed/ 58 http://www.thesocialman.com/the-nature-of-david/ http://www.thesocialman.com/the-nature-of-david/#comments Fri, 28 May 2010 09:19:50 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1794 From time to time, I write to understand the world. Through story and metaphor, I attempt to find meaning in something that inspires me, confuses me, or both... many times, a woman, a situation or a belief. These writings have been largely private to this point - sometimes a small gift from myself to another]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/the-nature-of-david/feed/ 9 http://www.thesocialman.com/to-be-honest-or-non-reactive/ http://www.thesocialman.com/to-be-honest-or-non-reactive/#comments Thu, 01 Apr 2010 04:13:13 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1764 my girl flirts with other guys... a lot... should I allow myself to be annoyed, or should I allow her to continue to be? Continue reading →]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/to-be-honest-or-non-reactive/feed/ 0 http://www.thesocialman.com/adam-gilad-erotic-mastery/ http://www.thesocialman.com/adam-gilad-erotic-mastery/#comments Wed, 17 Feb 2010 20:58:50 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1710 Had a fascinating conversation today with Adam Gilad. Well, it's always a good talk, but this time we recorded it. The discussion is a little bit R-rated - Adam had a lot to share about being a great lover and give a woman an experience she's never had in the bedroom. Enjoy this one. ]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/adam-gilad-erotic-mastery/feed/ 5 http://www.thesocialman.com/sexual-dynamics-in-a-warzone/ http://www.thesocialman.com/sexual-dynamics-in-a-warzone/#comments Tue, 22 Dec 2009 13:07:23 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1624 Here's a different take on things for you... My friend Sam Cook, an entrepreneur and retired Army Captain, joined me recently to share some fascinating thoughts.  Spending several years in Iraq, he had the opportunity to see the nature of sexuality in situations where, as Sam puts it, the alpha men have "power over life]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/sexual-dynamics-in-a-warzone/feed/ 2 http://www.thesocialman.com/the-universal-secret-and-why-we-cant-live-without-it/ http://www.thesocialman.com/the-universal-secret-and-why-we-cant-live-without-it/#comments Thu, 27 Aug 2009 00:46:20 +0000 Nick Sparks http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1215 Could it really be that simple? Could the answer to all of our consistency issues be right under our noses? Why is it that sometime's we can light up a room, while other times members of the opposite sex turn away in disinterest? I'll tell you the answer right now but I'll have to explain]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/the-universal-secret-and-why-we-cant-live-without-it/feed/ 26 http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-girls-who-wont-accept-compliments/ http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-girls-who-wont-accept-compliments/#comments Thu, 04 Jun 2009 15:53:24 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1135 Matt asks us about a girl who says that she believes that men are insincere. She doesn't like their compliments, but Matt wants to give her one.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-girls-who-wont-accept-compliments/feed/ 4 http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-different-women-different-agendas/ http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-different-women-different-agendas/#comments Mon, 01 Jun 2009 13:54:59 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1116 Some women, you want to date. Some women, you want as friends. Others, you want to have fun with. Thoughts on how to proceed with this social strategy.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-different-women-different-agendas/feed/ 2 http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-hooking-up-with-low-value-girls/ http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-hooking-up-with-low-value-girls/#comments Thu, 02 Apr 2009 16:37:32 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=923 Marc, who is in college, wants some guidance on which girls he should be attempting to date and hook up with.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-hooking-up-with-low-value-girls/feed/ 5