http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-around-women/ http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-around-women/#comments Tue, 31 Jan 2012 17:17:38 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4187 Crazy few days… we relaunched Fearless yesterday and are selling out fast.  And while I've finally started to hire some people to help out around here (if you're an entrepreneur, you probably know how hard it is to "let go") I still do a lot of the tech stuff, the marketing, the production… it's a]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-around-women/feed/ 4 http://www.thesocialman.com/singapore-surprises/ http://www.thesocialman.com/singapore-surprises/#comments Thu, 27 Oct 2011 18:53:33 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=3992 There's something about Asia that's always spoken to me... a whisper of sorts... a mystery to discover... a secret to unlock. So I'm excited to finally be visiting in a few weeks - I'll be in Singapore from Nov 15 to Dec 15, with a yet-to-be-confirmed mini trip to some exotic location. While I'm over]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/singapore-surprises/feed/ 12 http://www.thesocialman.com/why-your-conversations-are-falling-flat/ http://www.thesocialman.com/why-your-conversations-are-falling-flat/#comments Thu, 21 Jul 2011 17:18:12 +0000 Nick Sparks http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=3371 This article had to be written. After hearing this question more frequently than just about any other, I really didn’t have a choice.Why do your convos have a habit of dying? Let’s start by making one thing clear: I have trouble remembering a client who never told me, “I’m fine talking to most girls, it’s]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/why-your-conversations-are-falling-flat/feed/ 0 http://www.thesocialman.com/flirting-using-implied-investment/ http://www.thesocialman.com/flirting-using-implied-investment/#comments Thu, 09 Dec 2010 18:41:57 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1874 I used to be pretty terrible at flirting, but the more I hung out with guys who were good at it, the more it became a natural part of my personality. One of the benefits of doing social coaching - and it's hard to express this in a bullet point on a website - is]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/flirting-using-implied-investment/feed/ 29 http://www.thesocialman.com/standing-out-to-the-most-attractive-women/ http://www.thesocialman.com/standing-out-to-the-most-attractive-women/#comments Wed, 17 Nov 2010 00:53:31 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1850 A quickie this evening before the gym... this originated as a question on our forum. The question: what do you do to capture the attention of the most attractive women in social circles? It works -best- when you're the host of a gathering, but can work with just a little more effort when you're not]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/standing-out-to-the-most-attractive-women/feed/ 46 http://www.thesocialman.com/atsm-when-a-girl-asks-why-you-dont-have-a-girlfriend/ http://www.thesocialman.com/atsm-when-a-girl-asks-why-you-dont-have-a-girlfriend/#comments Tue, 05 Oct 2010 10:28:26 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1824 ]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/atsm-when-a-girl-asks-why-you-dont-have-a-girlfriend/feed/ 2 http://www.thesocialman.com/quick-tip-value-transferrance/ http://www.thesocialman.com/quick-tip-value-transferrance/#comments Sun, 23 May 2010 15:38:08 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1782 ]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/quick-tip-value-transferrance/feed/ 6 http://www.thesocialman.com/inside-phrases/ http://www.thesocialman.com/inside-phrases/#comments Fri, 21 May 2010 18:26:54 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1780 ]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/inside-phrases/feed/ 6 http://www.thesocialman.com/past-projections/ http://www.thesocialman.com/past-projections/#comments Wed, 19 May 2010 17:04:20 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1778 ]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/past-projections/feed/ 43 http://www.thesocialman.com/wish-you-were-here/ http://www.thesocialman.com/wish-you-were-here/#comments Wed, 12 May 2010 19:45:24 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1774 This one is so easy. If you're ever chatting with a girl on facebook, bbm, text, whatever... it's nice to say something like "wish you were here." But of course, that's not very original and can even come across as a little supplicatory depending on the context of your relationship with her.  So you want]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/wish-you-were-here/feed/ 6