http://www.thesocialman.com/what-to-say-to-women-who-reject-you/ http://www.thesocialman.com/what-to-say-to-women-who-reject-you/#comments Tue, 15 May 2012 19:16:06 +0000 jakev http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4524 I was recently asked about the best way to respond when a woman rejects you, and this is actually a fantastic question that really gets to the heart of the stuff that I teach guys. It's not important so that you can "save face" or anything like that, but rather because knowing ahead of time]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/what-to-say-to-women-who-reject-you/feed/ 5 http://www.thesocialman.com/becoming-a-master-of-arousal/ http://www.thesocialman.com/becoming-a-master-of-arousal/#comments Tue, 08 May 2012 19:31:01 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4484 A lot of guys tell me that their biggest sticking point with women is “getting attraction.” I think the word gets used as a placeholder far to often, so let’s see if we can shine a little light on on a specific element of attraction: arousal. You will not go home with a car loaded]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/becoming-a-master-of-arousal/feed/ 1 http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-disagree-with-a-woman/ http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-disagree-with-a-woman/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 17:42:12 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4369 Amazing final day in South Beach… a little work in the morning, daytime volleyball with a cool group of brazilians, evening massage at the Delano, and a four mile run on the beach to wind down the night. So these last few weeks, we've been talking about the mindset that drives confidence.  But let's get]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-disagree-with-a-woman/feed/ 18 http://www.thesocialman.com/best-technique-ever/ http://www.thesocialman.com/best-technique-ever/#comments Mon, 20 Feb 2012 17:02:25 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4235 In golf, it's the tell-tale crack of the club's sweet spot meeting the ball, and watching as the shot soars two hundred yards and beyond. In motorcycle racing, it's the twist of the wrist that propels the bike from 60 to 140 out of a perfectly executed corner and onto a straight in mere seconds.]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/best-technique-ever/feed/ 15 http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-around-women/ http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-around-women/#comments Tue, 31 Jan 2012 17:17:38 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=4187 Crazy few days… we relaunched Fearless yesterday and are selling out fast.  And while I've finally started to hire some people to help out around here (if you're an entrepreneur, you probably know how hard it is to "let go") I still do a lot of the tech stuff, the marketing, the production… it's a]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/how-to-be-confident-around-women/feed/ 6 http://www.thesocialman.com/singapore-surprises/ http://www.thesocialman.com/singapore-surprises/#comments Thu, 27 Oct 2011 18:53:33 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=3992 There's something about Asia that's always spoken to me... a whisper of sorts... a mystery to discover... a secret to unlock. So I'm excited to finally be visiting in a few weeks - I'll be in Singapore from Nov 15 to Dec 15, with a yet-to-be-confirmed mini trip to some exotic location. While I'm over]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/singapore-surprises/feed/ 12 http://www.thesocialman.com/why-your-conversations-are-falling-flat/ http://www.thesocialman.com/why-your-conversations-are-falling-flat/#comments Thu, 21 Jul 2011 17:18:12 +0000 Nick Sparks http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=3371 This article had to be written. After hearing this question more frequently than just about any other, I really didn’t have a choice.Why do your convos have a habit of dying? Let’s start by making one thing clear: I have trouble remembering a client who never told me, “I’m fine talking to most girls, it’s]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/why-your-conversations-are-falling-flat/feed/ 0 http://www.thesocialman.com/flirting-using-implied-investment/ http://www.thesocialman.com/flirting-using-implied-investment/#comments Thu, 09 Dec 2010 18:41:57 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1874 I used to be pretty terrible at flirting, but the more I hung out with guys who were good at it, the more it became a natural part of my personality. One of the benefits of doing social coaching - and it's hard to express this in a bullet point on a website - is]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/flirting-using-implied-investment/feed/ 30 http://www.thesocialman.com/standing-out-to-the-most-attractive-women/ http://www.thesocialman.com/standing-out-to-the-most-attractive-women/#comments Wed, 17 Nov 2010 00:53:31 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1850 A quickie this evening before the gym... this originated as a question on our forum. The question: what do you do to capture the attention of the most attractive women in social circles? It works -best- when you're the host of a gathering, but can work with just a little more effort when you're not]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/standing-out-to-the-most-attractive-women/feed/ 46 http://www.thesocialman.com/atsm-when-a-girl-asks-why-you-dont-have-a-girlfriend/ http://www.thesocialman.com/atsm-when-a-girl-asks-why-you-dont-have-a-girlfriend/#comments Tue, 05 Oct 2010 10:28:26 +0000 Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=1824 ]]> http://www.thesocialman.com/atsm-when-a-girl-asks-why-you-dont-have-a-girlfriend/feed/ 2