How To Be Confident Around Women

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Crazy few days… we relaunched Fearless yesterday and are selling out fast.  And while I've finally started to hire some people to help out around here (if you're an entrepreneur, you probably know how hard it is to "let go") I still do a lot of the tech stuff, the marketing, the production… it's a

Singapore Surprises

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There's something about Asia that's always spoken to me... a whisper of sorts... a mystery to discover... a secret to unlock. So I'm excited to finally be visiting in a few weeks - I'll be in Singapore from Nov 15 to Dec 15, with a yet-to-be-confirmed mini trip to some exotic location. While I'm over

Why Your Conversations Are Falling Flat - Part 1

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This article had to be written. After hearing this question more frequently than just about any other, I really didn’t have a choice.Why do your convos have a habit of dying? Let’s start by making one thing clear: I have trouble remembering a client who never told me, “I’m fine talking to most girls, it’s

Flirting Using Implied Investment

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I used to be pretty terrible at flirting, but the more I hung out with guys who were good at it, the more it became a natural part of my personality. One of the benefits of doing social coaching - and it's hard to express this in a bullet point on a website - is

Standing Out To The Most Attractive Women

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A quickie this evening before the gym... this originated as a question on our forum. The question: what do you do to capture the attention of the most attractive women in social circles? It works -best- when you're the host of a gathering, but can work with just a little more effort when you're not

ATSM - When a Girl Asks Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend

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Quick Tip - Value Transference

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Inside Phrases

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Past Projections

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Wish You Were Here

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This one is so easy. If you're ever chatting with a girl on facebook, bbm, text, whatever... it's nice to say something like "wish you were here." But of course, that's not very original and can even come across as a little supplicatory depending on the context of your relationship with her.  So you want