What To Say To Women Who Reject You

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I was recently asked about the best way to respond when a woman rejects you, and this is actually a fantastic question that really gets to the heart of the stuff that I teach guys. It's not important so that you can "save face" or anything like that, but rather because knowing ahead of time

Becoming A Master of Arousal

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A lot of guys tell me that their biggest sticking point with women is “getting attraction.” I think the word gets used as a placeholder far to often, so let’s see if we can shine a little light on on a specific element of attraction: arousal. You will not go home with a car loaded

How To Disagree With A Woman

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Amazing final day in South Beach… a little work in the morning, daytime volleyball with a cool group of brazilians, evening massage at the Delano, and a four mile run on the beach to wind down the night. So these last few weeks, we've been talking about the mindset that drives confidence.  But let's get

Best. Technique. Ever

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In golf, it's the tell-tale crack of the club's sweet spot meeting the ball, and watching as the shot soars two hundred yards and beyond. In motorcycle racing, it's the twist of the wrist that propels the bike from 60 to 140 out of a perfectly executed corner and onto a straight in mere seconds.

How To Be Confident Around Women

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Crazy few days… we relaunched Fearless yesterday and are selling out fast.  And while I've finally started to hire some people to help out around here (if you're an entrepreneur, you probably know how hard it is to "let go") I still do a lot of the tech stuff, the marketing, the production… it's a

Singapore Surprises

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There's something about Asia that's always spoken to me... a whisper of sorts... a mystery to discover... a secret to unlock. So I'm excited to finally be visiting in a few weeks - I'll be in Singapore from Nov 15 to Dec 15, with a yet-to-be-confirmed mini trip to some exotic location. While I'm over

Why Your Conversations Are Falling Flat - Part 1

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This article had to be written. After hearing this question more frequently than just about any other, I really didn’t have a choice.Why do your convos have a habit of dying? Let’s start by making one thing clear: I have trouble remembering a client who never told me, “I’m fine talking to most girls, it’s

Flirting Using Implied Investment

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I used to be pretty terrible at flirting, but the more I hung out with guys who were good at it, the more it became a natural part of my personality. One of the benefits of doing social coaching - and it's hard to express this in a bullet point on a website - is

Standing Out To The Most Attractive Women

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A quickie this evening before the gym... this originated as a question on our forum. The question: what do you do to capture the attention of the most attractive women in social circles? It works -best- when you're the host of a gathering, but can work with just a little more effort when you're not

ATSM - When a Girl Asks Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend

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