What If You're Super-Picky?

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What if you have exceptionally high standards? How does this change your dating strategies? Continue reading

Feedback Threshold, Women and Entrepreneurship

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One of the concepts we discuss on Unbreakable is the feedback threshold.  It's an important concept in most parts of your life, and I want to give you a few examples of how it plays out in your success in just about everything you do. The way we define a feedback threshold is thus: it's

What is Confidence?

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I’ve never taken anything but straw polls on the matter, but ask any woman what she wants in a man, and “confidence” is sure to be one of the top three or four character traits.  So it’s worth spending some time asking ourselves what it is and how to discover it inside of yourself.  Our

How to Cure Neediness

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How to Cure Neediness This one was composed with the help of Christian Hudson and Nick Sparks. You should also be able to see a bit of influence from Sebastian Drake, too. Dear Asian Rake David, Quick question: I've got this nagging feeling of  'neediness' that I haven’t been able to shake. I think I've

Speeches from the 21 Convention

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Gotta love Anthony and his team... free HD hosting of all the videos from the 21 Convention we spoke at not long ago.  Nick talks about college game, and sex, and I talk about some more high-level concepts (i.e. what it is to grow up and be a man), as well as some technique stuff

Your Sparkling Personality

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Ever think about what a personality is?  And what really makes up a person with a charismatic personality?  I'll let you in on the secret here... Your personality is like a filter that puts a spin on all of the information your present. So you could say hello. Or if you were Kanye West you'd

Ask The Social Man: guilt & religion vs. sex & seduction

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A doozy of a question today: how to deal with the "guilt" associated with wanting to become better with women, especially if one was raised with a religion that has dim views on the subject?

Ask The Social Man: what is charisma?

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Today, we get a funnily-worded question that amounts to "what is charisma?"

Ask The Social Man: getting out there!

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Today's question: "I'm ridiculously shy and unconfident.  How can I get better game? How can I improve my confidence?"

Ask The Social Man: Handling Rejection

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How do you handle rejection, both externally (with your words) and internally (with your confidence)?