The Winner's Attitude

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There's a unique quality of voice that accompanies a "come to Jesus" moment… you know, that moment when some serious hell gets rained down on you by someone you care about, in a way that makes you question everything about yourself. It's kind of like the frightened warble of a blind baby bird, unsure if

Deciding To Be Decisive

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A series on the qualities of the empowered and balanced masculine written for The Social Man. It’s important for guys who are seeking to improve their relationships with women to learn skills to be an attractive man. However, to find and keep your own personal perfect 10, you will have to become that man. This

How to take on a Empire and get better with Women - Spartacus

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In this month's Alpha Male Example, Ian breaks down the character of Spartacus, from the eponymous TV series. What can we learn from him about being an awesome, attractive guy? Read on for the full analysis...   So who we looking at? Character: Spartacus Actor: Andy Whitfield & Liam McIntyre Show: Spartacus - 'Blood and Sand'

What Every Woman Wants Her Man To Be

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A series on the qualities of the empowered and balanced masculine written for The Social Man. It’s important for guys who are seeking to improve their relationships with women to learn skills to be an attractive man. However, to find and keep your own personal perfect 10, you will have to become that man. This

Inner Game: The Gap, The Resistance and The Champion

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"Just go talk to her dude. Even one-armed women need lovin' too." So spoke my friend, moments before my first ever cold approach. Despite her missing limb, I was nervous as hell. Total lack of confidence, heart thumping in my throat… it felt like my brain was going to melt down. I steeled myself, and

How To Be Confident With Everything

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I've often thought that if I meet the man who invented Tostitos Hint of Lime chips, I'd give him a hug, then punch him in the face. When a bag of these chips is tucked away in my cabinet, it takes every ounce of willpower in my body to resist 'em.  Especially on those late

Becoming Your Own "Ten"

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Amazing discussion last week.  I have to tell you, it's so rewarding to see so many of you sharing your thoughts.  I spend so much time doing the day-to-day, running the business stuff and I love these opportunities to connect. So listen - tomorrow is Valentine's Day.  I have the good fortune to be spending

The Heart of Your Desire

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Woooooo.  I'm happy. This damn website I've been working on for six months is done.  It does a lot of cool stuff and makes it super-easy to access our content. Here's how it all works: Short Video Demo It's been a lot of hard work… in fact, the last year has been filled with hard

what the weird old guy doesn't understand

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"What people aren't getting about this guy is that you can't just teach everyone to pick up women by living some ranger danger lifestyle. That just doesn't work for everyone." So said a certain, much older, "seduction guru" about me back in January on my facebook wall. It's such a shame that, for as long

Finding Purpose & Satisfaction

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Off to the Dominican for a much-needed vaca tomorrow... You're going to see some big ol' changes coming down the pipe here soon - we want to get broader with the advice we're giving.  There will be a lot of stuff on interaction skills and game, but also quite a bit on confidence, purpose, etc.