Unbreakable is Coming

June 9, 2009 | By Christian | 2 comments... leave more | Posted in Video

Podcast: screening and qualifying

Enjoy this talk with Dan and Nick about how and why to screen and qualify.

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June 6, 2009 | By Christian | 7 comments... leave more | Posted in Audio

Ask The Social Man: getting the girl who flirts with everyone

You know that girl who lets on like she likes you, but who does the same with ten other guys in her life? Here’s how to make this happen.

June 5, 2009 | By Christian | 4 comments... leave more | Posted in Video

Ask The Social Man: girls who won’t accept compliments

Matt asks us about a girl who says that she believes that men are insincere. She doesn’t like their compliments, but Matt wants to give her one.

June 4, 2009 | By Christian | 2 comments... leave more | Posted in Video

Ask The Social Man: the girl across the hall

For those of us living in apartment buildings with lovely women right across the hall, what’s the best way to get to know them?

June 3, 2009 | By Christian | 1 comment... leave more | Posted in Video

Ask The Social Man: when do you add a girl on facebook?

A simple question today: when do you add a girl on facebook?

June 2, 2009 | By Christian | 2 comments... leave more | Posted in Video

Ask The Social Man: different women, different agendas

Some women, you want to date. Some women, you want as friends. Others, you want to have fun with. Thoughts on how to proceed with this social strategy.

June 1, 2009 | By Christian | 2 comments... leave more | Posted in Video

Some Updates

Apologies for the lack or blog posts lately. We’ve been working on some behind the scenes stuff with shopping carts, affiliate management, and various production-related things, but will be back next week with more Ask The Social Man.

If you’re in the New York area, come through to our party tomorrow night. Sponsored by The Social Man (us) and The Aberratium (an art collective), and benefiting Safe Horizon, the American Cancer Society, and the Aberratium. I’ll be spinning 10-11 and then again from 12 to 2 AM, and people will be dancing no doubt. We also arranged for free cupcakes for the first hundo people - seriously - so come support a good cause and party!

May 27, 2009 | By Christian | 1 comment... leave more | Posted in Christian's Thoughts

Unbreakable - Writing to DVD

As I compose this, its about 2:00 am on a Wednesday night.

And we hit a major milestone: the first disc of Unbreakable is being burned on this very laptop.

It is looking at this point like it is going to be 3 DVDs. Once these are done, they’ll be shipped off to the duplication company. In under a month, there are going to be a small number of copies ready to go, and hopefully, one of them will end up in your hands.

I want to take a moment to give you a little preview of what’s in the program, and what is *is*, exactly.

It started off as “The Social Man Method.” What we do when we meet girls. But it became so much more.

One of the few people who has already seen it called it a “unified field theory of pickup, seduction and dating.”

If you’re not a physics geek, he was comparing it to the theory that scientists are working to discover which will unite Einstein’s theory of relativity, and quantum physics. These are two models of how the universe works, and they’ve both been experimentally verified, but they’re incompatible with each other. It is hoped that soon, some team of brilliant scientists will figure out how it all comes together, then we’ll know the most fundamental elements and workings of the universe.

Being a physics geek myself, I was flattered by the comparison.

It is still hard for me to articulate how intense this program is. I believe that it is going to fundamentally rewire the way that you think of women, think of yourself, and think of the world - as it has already done for a very, very small group of guys.

You’ll learn about confidence - exactly what it consists of and how to discover and develop it quickly. But Unbreakable is not just an “inner game” program.

You’ll learn about game and pickup. We’ll show you exactly why each sentence has the effect it does, and how to develop natural instincts. But its not just an “outer game” program.

You’ll learn about how the story of your life can be so compelling, and how to tell it in a high-value way. But its not just a “lifestyle” program.

You’ll learn how men and women interact - on the surface, and at levels deeper than you’ve ever experienced or considered. But its not just a “social theory” program.

It brings all of these concepts, and more, together, and it presents them in a way that is both easy to learn, and to put into practice.

It goes far beyond typical stuff you read, to show you how your words flow from who you are, and how you can “just be yourself” and get all the women in the world.

And please understand: I’m not trying to over-hype it, make inflated claims, or push it on you. Unbreakable is everything I’ve described and more - that’s just a fact.

Every day I’ve logged into the mailing software and seen ten, twenty, fifty new signups a day on this Unbreakable interest list, and it has kept me motivated.

Sometime within the next fourteen days, we’ll be starting to show more of the program to people on the list, so you can see what its all about, and get ready for when its released. We’ll keep the emails reasonable and on topic - as you’ve come to expect from me. And you’ll be learning some awesome things along the way.

More to come soon…

Christian

May 21, 2009 | By Christian | 3 comments... leave more | Posted in Christian's Thoughts

A Little Update

Hey, happy Saturday. In the middle of an extended bootcamp weekend and we’re all enjoying ourselves. Just a little update for those who follow along:

I’ve been rendering Unbreakable for the last few days. This means taking all of the raw footage that has been edited, and having the computer output it into a single, flat file that can go on a DVD. It takes my Macbook Pro about 5 hours to render 40 minutes of footage. There are 11 “chapters” in Unbreakable, so this process has been happening all week.

I’ve had a chance to review everything in there, and I don’t mean to sound overconfident, but I’m so happy with how it came out. It is really mind-blowing stuff, unlike anything I’ve seen taught. I cannot wait for you to see it.

My motivation behind this… well, its complicated. I want to share something of value with the world. I want to let my hard lessons and experiences help others. I want to prove wrong a few people who said I couldn’t do this.

Something interesting has happened in the last year. When I started “The Social Man” last year, it was basically a name to use to run a few bootcamps. I needed some cash at the time and had been half-assedly involved in this community with our Master the Vibe project. In July, I decided to really have a go at it though, and that’s when Unbreakable started to come together. It was an eight week course that was “everything I know” about pickup and dating.

Here we are, eight months later. The course’s contents have changed quite a bit. And I’m so invested in this that I have turned down dates, cut my socializing time, and even, for weeks at a time, let my health go by the wayside. I’m reminded of what it is like to believe in something you’re building. I’ve felt this before, but never this acutely since I was 19 and starting a portable MP3 company (pre-iPod, pre-Rio).

Wherever we fit into your life, I’m excited to be able to share this with you soon.

May 16, 2009 | By Christian | No comments... leave one | Posted in Christian's Thoughts