Why Your Conversations Are Falling Flat - Part 1

Posted in Pickup Your Game
This article had to be written. After hearing this question more frequently than just about any other, I really didn’t have a choice.Why do your convos have a habit of dying? Let’s start by making one thing clear: I have trouble remembering a client who never told me, “I’m fine talking to most girls, it’s

Ask the Social Man : Ex Love

Posted in Dating Done Right
Today's question comes from Erik on Facebook. He was working toward getting back together with an ex, when all of a sudden a wrench got thrown into his plans and asks what to do:

Ask the Social Man: Meeting Girls at Work

Posted in Live The Good Life
New user StumptheChump from our forums recently asked us about attracting women while he was working. Here is my response from my 'shoebox' in Chinatown ;)

The Universal Secret - And why we can't live without it

Posted in Women And The World
Could it really be that simple? Could the answer to all of our consistency issues be right under our noses? Why is it that sometime's we can light up a room, while other times members of the opposite sex turn away in disinterest? I'll tell you the answer right now but I'll have to explain

Sparks Rapid Escalation Method

Posted in Pickup Your Game
By (very) popular request, here it is: The S-REM is a complete breakdown of all of the non-verbals that go into creating sexual tension between you and a woman who are attracted to each other so that your interactions will not fall flat but instead will be taken to the next level.  

Friday Night Fire - Dec 12

Posted in Crank Your Confidence
[originally posted at www.thesocialman.com/blog] Are you ready to make the most of your weekend?  Take three minutes to get Nick's advice on how to make tonight the best night ever. Recommended background music tonight - a true party classic: Love Generation by Bob Sinclar.

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Friday Night Fire 2

Posted in Crank Your Confidence
Nick's Friday Night Speech for November 21. Recommended background music: Touch the Sky by Kan-yeezee.

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Friday Night Fire 1

Posted in Crank Your Confidence
Nick's Friday Night Speech for November 14. Recommended background music: Mr. Brightside.

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I'm Not Rich

Posted in Crank Your Confidence
I'll be honest, no matter where I go there are men who have much more money than me, have nicer cars, wear nice clothes, and can give a girl more material happiness, i.e. flying her down to Costa Rica for the weekend. A lot of men try to play this game, try to impress a

Sneaky Dating Tricks: Cont...

Posted in Women And The World
Christian started an excellent discussion here and I couldn't help but jump in on it. The main thing I want to do here is give some guidance on how to react if you find yourself in a situation where a girl is using one of these "sneaky dating tricks" on you so that you don't