Comments on: Audio Mailbag: Getting the Date http://www.thesocialman.com/audio-mailbag-getting-the-date/ How To Be Confident Thu, 17 May 2012 20:12:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Christian http://www.thesocialman.com/audio-mailbag-getting-the-date/#comment-232 Christian Wed, 17 Dec 2008 06:25:46 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=633#comment-232 A, what's up - the answer, I guess, is "it depends." Here in NYC, it seems like EVERYTHING is done over text message. The number of phone convos I've had with girls in the last 8 months is something I could count on one hand (seriously). So I guess you should assess what's going on wherever you are. In general, attractive girls these days use microcommunication tools - IM, text and facebook - to set plans more often than ever before. If that's what's going on in your world, make it work to your advantage! A, what's up - the answer, I guess, is "it depends." Here in NYC, it seems like EVERYTHING is done over text message. The number of phone convos I've had with girls in the last 8 months is something I could count on one hand (seriously).

So I guess you should assess what's going on wherever you are. In general, attractive girls these days use microcommunication tools - IM, text and facebook - to set plans more often than ever before. If that's what's going on in your world, make it work to your advantage!

]]> By: A http://www.thesocialman.com/audio-mailbag-getting-the-date/#comment-231 A Tue, 16 Dec 2008 21:37:05 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=633#comment-231 Cool mailbag! One thing I'm wondering as I listen - asking a girl over/out/whatever on text seems really tacky to me. Like, you just don't do that. Is there some big problem with just calling her, striking up a little conversation and then asking her out (rather than starting with a few texts)? Cool mailbag! One thing I'm wondering as I listen - asking a girl over/out/whatever on text seems really tacky to me. Like, you just don't do that. Is there some big problem with just calling her, striking up a little conversation and then asking her out (rather than starting with a few texts)?

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