Audio Mailbag: Falling In Love

January 27, 2009

Today’s question comes from “robert” who is sitting in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g.

Yo Christian,

Hope you’re staying warm out there. I imagine you’re either going to the inauguration or hosting a killer party to celebrate it…

Anyways, I wanted to thank you, keep you posted about me, and ask a question…I’ll make it short and sweet!

I’m blessed to be where I’m at right now…I’m more confident, aware, and happier than ever. I made a choice to develop myself and I have done just that. Your insights/material/advice/input into dating and life have contributed significantly to my growth, and I thank you.

Recently I met an amazing girl and we are now in a monogamous relationship. She fits very well into the “girlfriend” role for me. Unbreakable had A LOT to do with getting me in the right place to have such an awesome girl. It’s also been a guide for me in other areas of life. So I’m really enjoying life and spreading love like a mo’ fo!

My question…So my girlfriend is on another level from all the other women I’ve dated or even just socialized with. She has all of the physical qualities that make me happy, and that’s not very hard to find in Orange County, but she is a self aware and extremely intelligent person as well. She is out to “give love” in the same sense that you and I practice. She is positive and giving…self assured and confident…etc…etc…

It appears to me, that this girl does not face the same insecurities as regular women. And at times, I question if my development is on par with hers. So I’m wondering if you can relate to this situation at all and perhaps shed some insights…

I’ve resolved to just enjoy what our relationship is and try not to over think things…but I want to “stay at my razors edge” and keep developing myself.

I’m wondering if I’m getting too into her…like falling in love…this is a completely new thing for me…have you experienced this?

I hope that was coherent! haha It was kind of stream of consciousness..

Thanks again, man.

Cheers, and so happy to see you at this point. Here are some thoughts for you!

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Posted by Christian | Filed Under Women And The World