Comments on: Ask The Social Man: making guy friends http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-making-guy-friends Thu, 09 Sep 2010 01:59:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: jak http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-making-guy-friends/comment-page-1#comment-659 jak Fri, 17 Jul 2009 03:09:24 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=947#comment-659 what kind of questions can you talk about when making guy friends... without sounding nosey or like a user what kind of questions can you talk about when making guy friends… without sounding nosey or like a user

]]> By: Will http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-making-guy-friends/comment-page-1#comment-553 Will Tue, 14 Apr 2009 00:44:02 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=947#comment-553 haha love the shades. esp the ones on domo Generally guys who had read The Game and The Mystery Method book combo religiously get themselves into the mode where they are literally Frame Control Addicts. They are so afraid of losing control of the situation, you can seriously detect their nervousness from a mile away. The minute I sense something like this, I typically respond with: 1. Pause 2. Give the guy the "are you fucking retarded" look 3. Light laugh 4. "Hey man, everything's going to be alright." (Hand to shoulder) 5. Walk away Okay, I hope you don't turn that into some sort of AMOG COUNTER. But you get the point. They're too stuck up in their heads. Be friendly, go out, meet a bunch of great guys. Wanna know one of the best conversation topics to talk to them about? GIRLS! omg, who would've thought?! :P haha love the shades. esp the ones on domo

Generally guys who had read The Game and The Mystery Method book combo religiously get themselves into the mode where they are literally Frame Control Addicts. They are so afraid of losing control of the situation, you can seriously detect their nervousness from a mile away.

The minute I sense something like this, I typically respond with:
1. Pause
2. Give the guy the “are you fucking retarded” look
3. Light laugh
4. “Hey man, everything’s going to be alright.” (Hand to shoulder)
5. Walk away

Okay, I hope you don’t turn that into some sort of AMOG COUNTER. But you get the point. They’re too stuck up in their heads.

Be friendly, go out, meet a bunch of great guys. Wanna know one of the best conversation topics to talk to them about? GIRLS! omg, who would’ve thought?! :P

]]> By: Joe http://www.thesocialman.com/ask-the-social-man-making-guy-friends/comment-page-1#comment-548 Joe Sat, 11 Apr 2009 16:19:30 +0000 http://www.thesocialman.com/?p=947#comment-548 Great Vid here. lots of useful information. I was struggling with some of these problems here earlier during this school year, where I was surrounded by a whole bunch of guys who thought they were "too cool for school", acted like dicks when girls were around(and even when there weren't girls), always had something to prove, real limiting with who they hung out with, turned to illegal and dangerous activites to make themselves look cooler. Finally I moved out and now spend my time with guys very similar to Christian and Nick here. Friendly, Fun, Cool guys whose focus is more on having fun than looking or acting "cool". I'm having much more fun whenever I go out now, and several girls I know for a fact see me differently now. Great Vid here. lots of useful information. I was struggling with some of these problems here earlier during this school year, where I was surrounded by a whole bunch of guys who thought they were “too cool for school”, acted like dicks when girls were around(and even when there weren’t girls), always had something to prove, real limiting with who they hung out with, turned to illegal and dangerous activites to make themselves look cooler. Finally I moved out and now spend my time with guys very similar to Christian and Nick here. Friendly, Fun, Cool guys whose focus is more on having fun than looking or acting “cool”. I’m having much more fun whenever I go out now, and several girls I know for a fact see me differently now.

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