Ask The Social Man: making guy friends

Great Vid here. lots of useful information. I was struggling with some of these problems here earlier during this school year, where I was surrounded by a whole bunch of guys who thought they were "too cool for school", acted like dicks when girls were around(and even when there weren't girls), always had something to prove, real limiting with who they hung out with, turned to illegal and dangerous activites to make themselves look cooler. Finally I moved out and now spend my time with guys very similar to Christian and Nick here. Friendly, Fun, Cool guys whose focus is more on having fun than looking or acting "cool". I'm having much more fun whenever I go out now, and several girls I know for a fact see me differently now.

haha love the shades. esp the ones on domo

Generally guys who had read The Game and The Mystery Method book combo religiously get themselves into the mode where they are literally Frame Control Addicts. They are so afraid of losing control of the situation, you can seriously detect their nervousness from a mile away.

The minute I sense something like this, I typically respond with:
1. Pause
2. Give the guy the "are you fucking retarded" look
3. Light laugh
4. "Hey man, everything's going to be alright." (Hand to shoulder)
5. Walk away

Okay, I hope you don't turn that into some sort of AMOG COUNTER. But you get the point. They're too stuck up in their heads.

Be friendly, go out, meet a bunch of great guys. Wanna know one of the best conversation topics to talk to them about? GIRLS! omg, who would've thought?! :P

what kind of questions can you talk about when making guy friends... without sounding nosey or like a user