Ask The Social Man: Handling Rejection

Wow, actually got alot out of this. Since fear of rejection is something I've been dealing with. The 4 frames were pretty powerful stuff. Thanks guys

I love these. Keep posting. Out of all the pua sites, I would rank yours as number one.

wow, never thought of it like that. thanks guys :)

On a smaller level, before the BIG rejection even comes up. How should I handle smaller rejections?.

For instance, if I'm giving a girl a piggyback ride and playfully smack her ass, or if I am teasing a girl about her major, etc...basically any form of teasing...

...and she gets offended. Maybe I took it too far, maybe she's overly sensative, whatever...... What do I do? Is it as simple as "hey sorry I didn't mean to be mean, I was just messing around"? and then quick subject change?

Any advise would be great. Thanks

There's many, many ways to handle this situation. And it really depends on her current state and how offended she might have gotten. Here's a simple one:

"Hey hun, come here (wave her over. then give a great BIG BEAR HUG). I really didn't mean for you to get upset. (*mwah, kiss on cheek)"

and then you can end with "are you okay now? (big smile!)"

thanks dude. thats great stuff. seems like it would work really well if she just gets upset/sad.... but what about when she's kinda pissed about it...do you think that same stuff would still work?

thanks dude. thats great stuff. seems like it would work really well if she just gets upset/sad....

.....but what about when she's kinda pissed about it...do you think that same stuff would still work?