Ask The Social Man: getting her to call you back

Much as Nick had discussed in his recent article, "What Happened to our Utopia?" (http://sparksofattraction.com/?p=228) - Women have a LOT to fear about. And this will become very prevalent as you meet more women.

As Nick, Domokun, and Christian suggest - do your best to convey a fun and comfortable vibe; even through your texts!

A quick few pointers in text to phone game:
- Convey positivity, stay light and fun
- Initial text should be a statement:
(something awesome you did, ate, saw, witnessed, etc)
- And also, I love to role play via text
(ie: "omg i can't wait for our flight this weekend!")

If she plays along, the more fun. Otherwise, transition into a comfortable chat. A few texts in, GIVE HER A CALL right when she responds!

Thanks guys for answering my question. I felt like protesting at first, since I believe the attraction is there because of my strong presence and eye contact, but I definitely do take a more mysterious vibe than a fun, light vibe. That might not make them feel as safe. Thus I will take all the advice you gave with an open mind and will incorporate it into my next interactions and texts/phone contacts with an honest effort.

Thanks again
(Though I'm from LA, which some say is the flake capital of the world; nevertheless ...)

Great stuff! Thanks for sharing the text conversation.

haha I feel bad for Domokun... yeah Nick, I saw you molest him at the beginning