How did I end up here?
Well, that is a great question. I think it was with a little bit of luck, good timing, and my charming personality ;) that I have been blessed to work with such a great group of people
I am from St. Louis, Missouri, so I have the genuine heart of a Midwesterner. I have 2 younger brothers and I was always their go-to girl whenever they got themselves into situations… especially in the dating world. I have always been the type of girl who is outgoing and could approach anyone without hesitation. I am also an actress, so I am comfortable being the center of attention and I use that to my advantage.
I have lived all over the country and of course as a musical theatre actress should, I ended up in New York. Ever since I was 10 years old, I knew I would move to the “City That Never Sleeps.” And believe me, the first 2 years, I didn’t. I wanted to throw myself at the city and embrace all of the different cultures, people (and food) that I never experienced growing up in St. Louis. And of course, I dated…a lot. I ended up meeting someone who I thought, was “the one.” I left my crazy insomniatic life and turned my back on my dreams of fame and stardom and moved to a quaint apartment downtown with him. 5 months later, I looked in the mirror and wondered who I had become. I gave up everything that I was to be with this man, and I was turning into to someone that I didn’t like. I started losing friends and family that were so near and dear to me. I don’t even remember singing a note starting the day we signed the lease of the apartment, until the day I realized who i had become and didn’t like her, and moved out. It took EVERYTHING out of me. Imagine, thinking I was going to spend the rest of my life with someone, being spontaneous and jumping head first into a relationship, and it ended up not working out. I was devastated and heartbroken. I thought I would never date again and my life was over.
But it wasn’t over. I started to focus on myself and rebuild the relationships that I had severed when I was with that guy. I started going out more and becoming my old outgoing self Through all of my self-realization, I learned who I was. My strengths of a person, and what a good “catch” I was.
I started dating again, even online dating! And I really started to focus on the person who was sitting across from me at the dinner table. I would listen to what my date was saying and paint that picture of them experiencing what they were talking about. I basically started to use the advice I would give my brothers and friends, and applied it to myself.
Fast forward 2 years, and I am doing great. I am still living in NY and singing everyday. I am not sure what my life will bring, but I am happier now.
On a lazy Sunday, with few fluke clicks of a mouse, led me to Christian and the social man web site. I spent about 2 hours divulging myself into their concepts, material, forum posts, ect, and knew I had to reach out.
I then wrote Christian a novel about my life and how I saw myself fit into the Social Man’s teaching, and I have to honestly say, I am so honored to be a part of it. It is amazing to see how much one guy can change (for the better) over one boot camp weekend. It really touches my heart to see hear how our clients have now become successful and are happier with their lives.
Please feel free to email me, contact me on facebook, post some questions to me on the forum. I would love to chat and get to know you. Sometimes, a girl’s opinion is exactly what you need!
