Ask the Social Man: Meeting Girls at Work

Posted in Live The Good Life

New user StumptheChump from our forums recently asked us about attracting women while he was working. Here is my response from my 'shoebox' in Chinatown ;)

Holiday Greetings

Posted in Live The Good Life

As a reader of this website, you have my sincerest appreciation. Since The Social Man became my full-time job in 2008, I've delighted in sharing my thoughts with you. I track our email newsletter "stats" regularly - how many people actually open and click through - and, depending on the subject line, about 40-50% of

Sexual Dynamics in a Warzone

Posted in Women And The World

Here's a different take on things for you... My friend Sam Cook, an entrepreneur and retired Army Captain, joined me recently to share some fascinating thoughts.  Spending several years in Iraq, he had the opportunity to see the nature of sexuality in situations where, as Sam puts it, the alpha men have "power over life

Ask The Social Man: from social to dating

Posted in Dating Done Right

Frank asks us how to transition to something more serious and exclusive with one of the girls in his social circle. Continue reading

An introduction and my top 3 tips of the week...

Posted in Pickup Your Game

I just wanted to introduce myself.  I am the new female coach for The Social Man.  I am very excited to be a part of TSM.  Feel free to email me at jody@thesocialman.com or find me on Facebook as Jody Ann. Now, on to bigger and better things... As my first blog on here, I

Feedback Threshold, Women and Entrepreneurship

Posted in Crank Your Confidence

One of the concepts we discuss on Unbreakable is the feedback threshold.  It's an important concept in most parts of your life, and I want to give you a few examples of how it plays out in your success in just about everything you do. The way we define a feedback threshold is thus: it's

What is Confidence?

Posted in Crank Your Confidence

I’ve never taken anything but straw polls on the matter, but ask any woman what she wants in a man, and “confidence” is sure to be one of the top three or four character traits.  So it’s worth spending some time asking ourselves what it is and how to discover it inside of yourself.  Our