80:20 - little things that matter

Posted in Pickup Your Game

There are a few things in pickup that are non-negotiable must-haves.  Those things are: EYE CONTACT - you should be making eye contact 70% of the time you're talking to someone - you should only break eye contact to the side, not downwards - you should be making direct eye contact anytime you give a

Podcast: screening and qualifying

Posted in Pickup Your Game

Enjoy this talk with Dan and Nick about how and why to screen and qualify.

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Ask The Social Man: getting the girl who flirts with everyone

Posted in Dating Done Right

You know that girl who lets on like she likes you, but who does the same with ten other guys in her life?  Here's how to make this happen.

Ask The Social Man: girls who won't accept compliments

Posted in Women And The World

Matt asks us about a girl who says that she believes that men are insincere. She doesn't like their compliments, but Matt wants to give her one.

Ask The Social Man: the girl across the hall

Posted in Pickup Your Game

For those of us living in apartment buildings with lovely women right across the hall, what's the best way to get to know them?

Ask The Social Man: when do you add a girl on facebook?

Posted in Dating Done Right

A simple question today: when do you add a girl on facebook?

Ask The Social Man: different women, different agendas

Posted in Women And The World

Some women, you want to date. Some women, you want as friends. Others, you want to have fun with. Thoughts on how to proceed with this social strategy.