Ask The Social Man: moving forward with that female friend
April 29, 2009
Our writer today has been friends with a girl for over a year now, and has developed some feelings for her. He wants to take things to the next level and is wondering if he should come clean with his feelings.
Ask The Social Man: talking to a girl who you always see around
April 28, 2009
Our reader today asks how to say hello to a cute girl who he sees around all the time, but to whom he’s never introduced himself.
Ask The Social Man: guilt & religion vs. sex & seduction
April 27, 2009
A doozy of a question today: how to deal with the “guilt” associated with wanting to become better with women, especially if one was raised with a religion that has dim views on the subject?
Ask The Social Man: getting ‘cold’ girls to open up
April 24, 2009
Our question today concerns a lovely but cold/shy young woman who our reader would like to get to know better. No broken bones resulted from the filming of this episode.
Ask The Social Man: from facebook to f…?
April 23, 2009
Our grad student friend today has been befriended by a few of his students on facebook, and is wondering what to do next. Our answer follows:
Ask The Social Man: random hookup, or more?
April 22, 2009
Our question today looks into how you might proceed differently with a girl if you want to date her, vs. if you just want to hook up. Apologies for the sound… forgot to pull out the second audio track when editing.
Ask The Social Man: how to get to sexy time?
April 20, 2009
We consider some basic tenets of escalation today (or, how to go for the kiss & etc.)
Ask The Social Man: how long until you kiss her?
April 17, 2009
Do you wait longer to kiss a girl who is “girlfriend material” than one with whom you’re just trying to hook up with?
Ask The Social Man: how to meet a girl in the swimming pool
April 16, 2009
One of our readers has asked us, many many times, how to meet a girl in a swimming pool. And so, here is our answer:
Ask The Social Man: developing your seductive personality
April 14, 2009
Today we tackle a question that goes something like “I’m trying to do more flirtatious things, like playful touching, but I don’t want to weird out the girls who already know me.”


