How to Be the Life of the Party

Posted in Live The Good Life
Hmmm, the title is a little misleading; that would be an incredibly long article! But Stephen Nash and I sat down to record a video about a few specific tactics to use at parties that will greatly increase your success with women in that environment. How to "isolate" with her and make it a mini-date,

Improving Your Confidence - Quickly

Posted in Crank Your Confidence
Wow, busy few days.  Last night was a big jaunt around the west side... a charity:water function (besides having a great mission, they are SO well branded and PR'd), a big thing in a chelsea art gallery, then Mr. West, then soho house, then marquee.... it was interesting to see how the music and aesthetics

Self-Aware?

Posted in Crank Your Confidence
My friend April sent me this article.  The notable stand-out was... "The desire to alter one's personality to appropriately fit a given situation or social climate prevents high self-monitors from presenting their true selves during intimate interactions with their romantic partners," Roloff said. "High self-monitors are very likeable and successful people. However, it appears they’re

Audio Mailbag: Dealing with Dudes

Posted in Pickup Your Game
Man, do I identify with this one... Hey Christian, I've been silently following your blog for alittle bit and getting some useful tips and wisdom from you. I'm 19 and in college and I'm encountering new social scenarios that I'm unsure of how to react. I was paired with some people to room with in

Men's Health Article

Posted in Etc.
Hey, we're quoted in this month's Men's Health magazine! This is the first mainstream press that The Social Man has received, but I'm familiar with this sort of thing from previous businesses.  The funny thing is that this sort of article does absolutely nothing for new traffic... the only press that brings real traffic is

Audio Mailbag: Just Go For It

Posted in Crank Your Confidence
Today's question comes from D, who wrote some VERY kind things... which we always appreciate :) Christian, You are a great man for offering what you have....a knowledge about not just women but life and the opportunity that most men do not want to admit that is there.  You talk about certain events in life