Ugly, Absurd, and Waaaay Cool

Posted in Live The Good Life
This winter I picked up a few new pairs of shoes... some Jump Cosmics and some Elastic Royal Warhols.  I imagine that we'll look back on these in the same way that I look back on the plaid pants that our parents wore in the late seventies.  But whatever... they're what's in now.  Google "Jump

Ask The Social Man: accepting compliments

Posted in Crank Your Confidence

Ask The Social Man: hooking up with your dream girl's friend

Posted in Dating Done Right

Ask The Social Man: on being right

Posted in Crank Your Confidence

Ask The Social Man: on being introverted

Posted in Crank Your Confidence

The Social Man on CNN

Posted in Etc.
With special thanks to our beautiful friends Ivy and Dawn, as well as our boys Wax, Ryan and Steve.  And of course,"M".

Genuine Interest

Posted in Pickup Your Game
Without getting too detailed about my personal life, I can tell you that I'm dating a lot right now.   I was recently out with a woman for whom I had very low expectations; I'd met her very, very late at a trendy club and didn't remember quite what she looked like, and our first phone

Wise Words

Posted in Women And The World
Many years ago, I discovered a song called We Want Fun, by a guy named Andrew W.K. I quickly picked up his album, and with it on repeat during a run, was energized to go further than I'd ever gone before.  Like his music or hate it, the guy has an amazing outlook on life. 

Audio Mailbag: Making Mistakes

Posted in Crank Your Confidence
Nick is stepping in for me this week, just too much going on right now... Hey Christian, I have been reading your e-mails/newsletters/free helpful advice, and I have been surprisingly pleased with the many day-to-day hints you have provided. There have been moments of outward delight at the oft-overlooked areas of game and generally self-improvement

New DJ Set For You to Download

Posted in Live The Good Life
Hey.  Here's another DJ set for you, mostly downtempo hip hop and the like, from a recent event.  Great for a chill get-together, background during busy-work, or anything where the music is there to set a fun but relaxed vibe. A little more energy thrown in mid-set. The songs: lots of Kid Cudi and Gorillaz,