Here's a quick and easy way to make yourself a LOT more interesting and relatable. When you're talking about your job, a hobby, an interest, etc... pick a factoid - like one of the things you'd find on the underside of a Snapple bottle cap - about that activity, and teach it. For example, I
Anyone who has ever found themselves in love will understand that it is largely an unconscious process. In other words, we don’t choose who we are attracted to – it just “happens,” without any logical reasoning. But let’s step back and consider what it is when two humans – Joe and Mary – interact with
Today's question comes from Ben, who is having difficulties securing dates over text messaging. FYI, I'm not always able to address specific situations on these, as sometimes there's a week or two turnaround. But hey, if you're finding yourself stuck, send me a facebook message or an email and I'll get to the question soon!
One of the common things you hear guys say is that "I can get attraction, but..." or "I can't get attraction." If you're speaking like this, you've probably read some of the Mystery Method stuff where there are three "phases" to a conversation - attraction, comfort and seduction. But what people usually mean to say
Today we have a guest post from a good female friend of mine, who goes by the name Model Behavior. I love her writing and have learned a lot from her, and I highly suggest that you start reading her website at www.SelfAbsorbed.me, a site where several smart females write about dating and relationships. And
Over the years that I've been teaching this stuff, I've noticed trends in thinking and behavior that come up again and again in clients. Certainly, each client is an individual and has unique strengths and weaknesses, but the things that make some successful and hold others back are always of interest to me. One of
Today's question comes from our friend ~N, who asks a question about a situation that we've all had to deal with. What do you do when you ask a girl to hang out spontaneously, i.e.: "Hey, let's go grab dinner later today..." or "Hey, wanna watch a movie at my place in 2 hrs?" And
By (very) popular request, here it is: The S-REM is a complete breakdown of all of the non-verbals that go into creating sexual tension between you and a woman who are attracted to each other so that your interactions will not fall flat but instead will be taken to the next level.
Ha wow, ok it's Sept 2011 as I update this, just realized that the links were broken, d'oh! Also, I've since released several NEW mixes. You can find all of them here: http://www.thesocialman.com/dj-mixes/ If you're logged in you'll find them easy to access. I'm not gonna lie - I'm not proud of the holiday mix
Where to start? Well, let's make this one a "quick tip". When you introduce your guests to each other, tell them something interesting about each other, or how you relate to them. Here are a few examples. The Common Interest Intro: "So I want you to meet John. He's just started a new information aggregation
