Friday Night Fire - Turkey Day Edition

Posted in Crank Your Confidence

Ready to make the most of the holiday weekend?  We're headed out to see two of Christian's favorite DJs, Deep Dish, with a few new friends.  What's going on in your world? Recommended background music tonight: Human by The Killers.

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Audio Mailbag: Why'd She Flake?

Posted in Dating Done Right

Today's question comes from Akash, and I really sympathize with his situation. Yo Christian, I need your advice man.  I was at yardhouse last friday, met to hang with some friends of friends and met this really cute girl at our table.  We talked for awhile, i REALLy felt like i hit it off -

Friday Night Fire 2

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Nick's Friday Night Speech for November 21. Recommended background music: Touch the Sky by Kan-yeezee.

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Are You Motherf*cking Kidding Me?

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Its when I see garbage like this that I HATE HATE HATE being in this industry.  The following has been pulled from a sales letter that is as idiotic as the idea of bailing out the auto industry with TARP money: Are you ready to discover one of the biggest secrets in building DEEP attraction

Audio Mailbag: Do You Have to be Cold?

Posted in Pickup Your Game

From Pedro, who writes very respectfully! You know, all these techniques, all the stuff we learn and so on...don't you think it takes a very cold man to be effectively in charge ? Let's say, if I go consciously thinking on every thing I should do and every thing she is doing I will not

Scrub Status

Posted in Crank Your Confidence

I sat depressed and alone in my dorm room overlooking NYC's cherished Union Square, with Radiohead's "Creep" sulking in the background. I looked down with longing at the plethora of social interactions and couples that plagued that rugged Square, as musicians jazzed, bikers and skaters flew, and farmers and artists came to proudly display their

Friday Night Fire 1

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Nick's Friday Night Speech for November 14. Recommended background music: Mr. Brightside.

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A night out with nick sparks...

Posted in Etc.

So what is a night out like with PUAs? Shawty wanna thug? Bottles in da club? I've always wondered what it would be like to party with these guys. Are they chill and cool guys, or are they just so focused on the game that they vibe out creepiness... I remember trying my first canned

Audio Mailbag: Quick Wit

Posted in Pickup Your Game

This week kicks off our weekly Tuesday audio mailbags (except we're starting on Monday, because there's a big announcement tomorrow).  So let's start with Mike in Ann Arbor, the city I miss greatly. First of all I wanted to tell you that I've learned a lot from your emails and have put many of your

Relationship Tests

Posted in Dating Done Right

There's a notion floating around - an accurate one, in my experience, that a strong woman will test her guy from time to time to make sure that he's living up to the title of 'man'. Let's talk about these tests.  I like to differentiate them - there are reinforcing tests (good), and destroying tests